Apparently the nay sayers have never had a terrible vacation
*spoilers*
I just now had a chance to watch this movie. I thought it was beautiful. The story was great, the actors were amazing (I can't remember the last time I saw an actress cry so realistically) and what it was lacking in "professional quality" it made up for in plot, editing, and character development.
I am constantly astounded by viewers who say they had to "turn off" a movie halfway through and then proceed to talk about how it left such a bad taste in their mouth. I think viewers are doing themselves a grave disservice. You have to see where the film is going to take you, cinematically, to form a constructed opinion about it.
I can completely understand how the "home movie" aspect would turn viewers away, but that very same aspect is what fuels this film. We are literally dropped into the lives of these "real characters" and the underlying conflicts are shown immediately. They practically spell it out for you! How many of you said to yourself, "wait, she's going on the trip with him...*blink*...that's *beep* healthy".
How can people turn up their nose at such a carefully orchestrated, seemingly authentic, backstory? These characters were domed to fail. It wasn't a cliche Hollywood ending, but it sure as *beep* was a happy one for both of these characters. This is the way it happens in real life. There are no grand gestures or silver linings in situations like this. Break-ups happen because they need to happen, people will continue to transfer their emotions onto others, and sometimes chairs aren't going to be upholstered by 10 o'clock the next morning. I would take a story like that over all the puzzle pieces falling into place any day of the week. Maybe that's why I enjoyed it so much.
Do yourself a favor. If you hated the movie, watch it again, IN ITS ENTIRETY, but watch it as if you were watching your best friend, or your brother, or even yourself, going through a similar situation that the characters went through, and then try to tell me that you were still unable to muster up some empathy within your big-budgeted bells-and-whistles soul. Try it.
"One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain."