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So who are more mature? Boys or girls?


I haven't seen a topic about it, so I would like to know what do you think: are the girls -as said in the movie- more mature than boys of same age?
And what about later? I mean, when they are 20-30-etc.
I definitely think women are always -generally speaking- more mature than men.
Any ideas?

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I think this has been proven that girls mature faster than boys.

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They mature faster PHYSICALLY but that is not the same thing as being mature.

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it is a biological imperative that girls reach puberty early for survival of the species..increased protien and carbs in the modern diet have spread the process up..but as it becomes necessary for the male to be provider/protector,the script flips..at 11 ,girls are frequently taller,sometimes stronger than boys..but at 17,boys become dramaticaaly bogger,stronger ,faster..as for girls being more "mature",please!putting on makeup and heels,sexy clothes and padded bras is just dress-up,like little boys wearing cowboy and astronaut outfits..a person's maturity is a combination of their natural character combined with the way they were raised,gender has nothing to do with it..

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Though girls maybe mature daster its quite obvious they don't always exhibit that maturity...

Only a fool is constantly wanted, normal people have to work hard to be interesting

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Well, I think if you take a look at how many girls act planning for their weddings, that is a level of immaturity that is hard to top. All grooms should really look closely at their intendeds during the wedding planning time and if they act like some I have seen, I would advise the grooms to run away as fast as they possibly can.

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I say boys.
Proof, girls in my class like Hannah Montana, and I-Carey.

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Are you kididng?I'm 14 years old in 10th grade and all the guys think about is sex and boobs.They're completely incompetent and are so stupid and perverted. And these are kids in the IB program that I'm talking about.

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at 14 they are like a walking boner, first hit of testoterone, fantasies hit the roof,give'em some time, they will come around to appreciate other parts of female anatomy as well. :)

As for OP- IMO Maturity is a matter of what responsibilities are thrust upon us and how we handle them,age doesn't make a difference.But if your criteria is seriousness and how one behaves in public then I have seen mature people behave in the most childish manner possible which leaves me in doubt if they are more mature than a person who acts the opposite.
Physical maturity is generally faster in girls so they have a reason to feel mentally more mature than boys of their age at puberty, but mental maturity is quite varied between the sexes. I feel since women have to keep their guard up and society likes women who look mature, we find more women who look mature.
Maturity in itself is quite a big question in our age where people don't stop learning, perpetual education has made us all look like big kids who don't feel like growing up.

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yeah,talentunfound,i know what you mean..and what about all those drunken irish,and the italians who are all gangsters and the blacks who are all on welfare?..i'm sure glad youre not prejudiced ,like those other people..please,darling ,there's no such a thing as ALL girls or ALL boys..judge 'em one at a time,lest you be judged yourself..

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I've seen 30-50 year old men act like 14 years old kids. So I'd say girls mature faster.

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I have seen 30-50 year old women act like 6 year old kids. So I'd say boys mature faster.

What stupid and retarded generalization.
Reading your stupid comments it seems that no one mature fasters since you all reason like kinder-garten children.

The truth is that maturity depends on what kind of education and environment you live in. A 12 year old boy can be a lot more mature than hi 43 year old mother. Or a 11 year old girl can be a lot more mature than certain 50 year old male politicians. Maturity has nothing to do with gender and except for the early years of life (before the onset of puberty) nothing to do with age.

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That was very mature calling me stupid and retarded :)

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Not you, the generalizations
I never claimed to be mature either, I mean when someone says to everyone he/she is mature it actually means that it's an immature conceited snob. A truly mature person doesn't judge and doesn't believe to be better than others unlike so many teachers, lawyers, parents, politicians who clearly wouldn't know maturity even if it hit them in the head.

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Well, it has been proved that until a certain age, in mix gender classes girls usually tend to have higher grades. And it's not because they are smarter, it's because they intellectually mature earlier. It's not feminism, it's a scientific fact.

http://whatafy.com/why-do-girls-mature-faster.html

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actually..its not...men compose opera,write great literature,build cathedrals and send rocket ships into space..they discover the cure for terrible diseases and pass laws that give women equal rights..
for decades,boys scored higher on tests,so the tests were dismissed as sexist..now that girls are scoring higher,its because boys arent intelectually mature..maturity is more about emotion and conduct than intellect..there are many factors that impact on test scores,including caring about test scores..
males and females arent competitors,theyre collabarators..the quicker we stop asking whos better..the better

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