but if you're good-looking enough women will come to YOU.
only now and again...guys who are good looking and rely on just that alone..it's just a one-winged airplane and it doesn't really fly like that.
The best thing you can say for that is that it may or should provide some increased confidance. The other edge of that sword, is that your confidance about your looks will still probably be fairly fragile when you inevitably encounter some femme that you do not appeal to and who does not stroke your ego.
Then you begin to question if you are really all that hot anyway.
Do women just throw themselves at handsome men , in a steady stream, no, sorry, it does not work like that..
and, even in the weak trickle of those who may, many or most will not really be what you had in mind anyway.
Note that there are not very many hetero male prostitutes, and those who are only tend to eke out a living from it, if that.
Watch the HBO show "HUNG", for a good insight on it. He has looks AND the characteristic alluded to in the show's title, he has this woman aggressively marketing him..even at reasonable rates, he gets a gig here and there, a lot of them quibble at the price or cannot even fully pay up on the date, and the phone does not run hot.
the answer to the OP is pretty-much --YES--.
You look at an example of an outlaw motorcycle club.
Most of them are tending to be ugly, few are 'pretty boys", a lot are overweight. Few take care of themselves much, a few work out or are even small-time UFC fighters or nbouncer types, but not the old-school traditional ones.
Most of the pretty guys would be too scared of the shyt that goes on in that environment, I know I would be reticent about a lot of it.
But, have motorcycle and the image and attitude...they will all have bitches, and probably others on the side or willing to step into the current one's shoes , if the #1 now moves on.
I cannot speak to the -quality-- of their women, though.
You pick up a biker magazine, the centrefold bitches are all hot, even if they are mature age, they are usually over the odds, and you watch a show like Sons of Anarchy, their ole ladies are all shapely and glamorous.
Not sure I buy it in the case of this example, to that extent.
If you are a high-profile successful criminal, you will certainly have women, as many as you want...many women get off on that pretty much off the dial...there is no doubt about that.
Some of your other replies also contain blunt truth, re, money, etc.
If you have money, visible assets and even enough to throw around, you will not sleep alone. That is not only how it is now, it is how it always has been.
Get rich, get famous,profile success in any of numerous fields, money, fame or both,and you will be taken care of .
Oh, yeah, sure. Watch out. THEN they will come to you.
Re being the bad boy etc. You are pretty much what you are so far as that goes, either way. If you think you buy a
'how to be a badasse and drive chicks crazy" self-help book on Amazon for $10 and off you go, although there no doubt actually are books of that title and subject out there, I would not have much faith in your prospects of getting your diploma in it and then pulling it off.
Probably the most you will accomplish , is mostly get yourself brought in by cops for a few chump-change loser offences...maybe get you stomped a couple of times by higher-ranking bad-boys.
I'm not sure what grade of tail that buys you if any, but I bet I would not want them at that entry level anyway.
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