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The Best Way to Pick Your Perfect Mate.....

posted 16 years ago by tatedawgg
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The trouble that people have in "Looking for Mr. or Mrs. right," is the fact that we all look further than our limits. The best way to pick your perfect mate is to look at your IMPERFECT self. When you come to grips with the type of person you are, inside and out, far from perfect yourself. It is at that point, you can successfully find your perfect mate in this imperfect world. If you're a wild party animal, stop looking for the, "at home body type." That's not fair to them or you. if you know that you're not completely sane, then you don't need someone that's got it all together. I'm not Playgirl material but, I want a Playboy model!?!? It doesn't make sense. The term, "opposites attract," didn't mean I'm an exotic dancer and you're a librarian. It was meant to come off as, we Both like music but, I like Phil Collins and you like Nine Inch Nails, same but different. So let's take another look people, you might have looked right pass your mate. Think about it!!!!

[–] rosymx_008 16 years ago

I think your completely right about this idea. Some people want someone that would probably NOT make them happy in the end. For example if I were to want a hot rich guy that works too much maybe great to look at and would provide me with a good lifestyle but on the otherhand he would not be able to offer me the time and attention that I desire and he may too serious and uptight for my liking. My WANT contradicts with the kind of person I am. Personally, I do not care for a that type but you get the gist.

[–] atac57 14 years ago

Thank you! This proves that I am right when I don't agree that people want to "play the field and get experience to see what kind of person I want, test drive, blah blah blah" Which is what I always hear from people my age (early 20's). You don't need "experience", you just need to know yourself, know what kind of person you are really well. That will make it so much easier to know when you actually find someone whos right for you.