Ethel...slow?


For lack of a better word (mentally challenged?) was Ethel slow, or just painfully shy? It was hard to tell...not that it really mattered, I was just surprised it wasn't made more explicit in the film.

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Really hard to tell, true. Either way, she was lucky to have a mum like Vera. She didn't even have to leave her home to land a husband.

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She might not have been the brightest bulb, but I think she's mostly painfully, painfully shy to the point that she should really get some proffessional help to get out of it.
My thoery is that she left school early to start working, my impression is that most working class kids in Britain at that time left school in their early teens to help their parents with the economy. Perhaps if she'd been able to got to school some years longer, she'd have the possibility to appreciate her intellectual skills alot more, which helps alot on self esteem and shyness. Besides, her job didn't seem to be a good plae to sosialise, if she'd had another job where she met/talked to more people, she'd be forsed to open up more.

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perorewen wrote: "She might not have been the brightest bulb..."

eeeewwwwww....booooooooooooooooo........hisssssssssssssssssssssss.....

Not for the remark itself or what it connotes, but for the bad pun. Do you not recall Ethel's job?

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My impression was that she was a very shy, quiet person who was awkward in social situations. I liked that she met another shy, quiet person to be happy with. I liked Rich, he was sweet... in the Christmas scene where nobody is really talking and Frank's wife is being rude to Vera he tries to be nice by telling Vera it was the best Christmas party he'd been to in a long time.... "Smashing!", he was lying to try to be nice.

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Actually I don't think he was quite lying either. I really believe his Christmases had been thouroghly misrable for many years, spending the holidays alone in his apartment.

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I couldn't stand that loud-mouth, snooty Joyce (sister in law). I wondered if it was a second marriage for her husband, since she was quite a bit younger? I think she was trying to get pregnant to ensure security for herself.

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I couldn't stand that loud-mouth, snooty Joyce (sister in law). I wondered if it was a second marriage for her husband, since she was quite a bit younger? I think she was trying to get pregnant to ensure security for herself.


I wondered if she was actually pregnant by someone else. She seemed desperate to have sex that particular night ("It has to be tonight"). Perhaps she had just found out that she was pregnant and wanted to have sex with him close enough to the date of conception that she might be able to convince him that he was the father. It might also have accounted for why she was so hard nosed about what Vera was doing (ie if I've had to make do then those girls should too).

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She wasn't slow. She was just shy. Honestly. LOL

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His name was Reg, not Rich.

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That's exactly what I thought.

It was interesting to me that Reg turned out to be the sympathetic one.

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I wonder if maybe she was trying to conceive and knew she was ovulating, which is why "it has to be tonight."

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@janezmd-245-816367 That makes a lot more sense than her being pregnant by someone else.

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Oh, when she begged her husband for sex I thought she was just horny. That's why I hate catching movies so late.

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I would say socially slow and quite shy. Other than that, she appears quite normal.

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Yeah, I was wondering the same thing.. Something seemed "off" with her.

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