GIRLS ALWAYS DO THIS.

Don't generalize. Emily was wrong, but you also have to consider how you would feel after a guy comes behind you and sticks it in your a** without your direct direct consent. And also the difference between how you see it then and how you see it sober.

But no, it wasn't raped. But some people feel raped.

Fav Song Of the Moment: "La Vaca" *Mala Fe*

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"I was glad in the movie when Allison confronted Emily about lying, and told Emily's parents what she agreed to have sex with three gang members."


she agreed to do it, unfortunetly she wasnt dealing with nice guys. They were gang members and to people who are immoral enough to be in a gang the no means no rule most likely wont apply.


Im really not trying to blame the girl, but Emily and Allison had no business playing around in world they new nothing about. It was a game to them and when Emily had those men on her it suddenly became real. In real life she would've gotten raped and dealt with so she wouldn't tell or play the rape card!





DJ:Darlene called me a prevert
Roseanne:You're not a prevert honey, You're a pervert

The "rape" was the most important scene in the movie because it put a harsh spotlight on the very idea of victimization. What we have here is the complete breakdown of all the rules that society has placed on the natural urges to keep us from sexually violating one another. Sex, in its raw form, though highly desired is not necessarily pleasant, either in its commission or its consequence. Society, and to a certain extent, our biology, for all its faults, finds ways to curb these unpleasantries through a dance we partake in that is to one degree or another choreographed. Since desire rises as the dance progresses, it is usually regulated to keep it from going too far, especially for the inexperienced. In this film, it went too far, and with alcohol inhibiting the defenses, there will be a strong likelihood of sexual violence. Can we as a society expect youngsters who otherwise have no rules to govern their own behavior in this area avoid what we are by human nature are going to do? The only way out of this pickle if we must yield to the argument of freedom for our youngsters is not to make such a big deal out of it what with having legal sanctions against it, that is unless the violence does irreparable harm (and I don't mean the harm from shame), but rather that it merely be considered a life's lesson and the next time we should be more careful.

Note, this reasoning doesn't apply to adult child rapes, or any where there is a great difference in sexual experience, only to similarly aged and experienced youngsters. In this film one might say that there wasn't much difference in experience between the boys and the girls, but that masks the differences in the kind of experience they had up to that moment, which, of course is the point being made by the film. Thus, what we have here is the excitement driving the girls combined with the (by comparison) caution exhibited by the boys that when an "agreement" was reached, it turned out not to have been what each thought they agreed to. The question of rape is possible to consider but I think the film came to the conclusion in the only way it could. Let it be considered a life's lesson and move on. (The boys, however, weren't so fortunate and in any case had other issues.)

James

that was one of the best parts of the movie,, when emily got ratted out to her parents.. i was like yeah.
are you going to bark all day little doggie,, or are you going to bite

A lot of people take the term rape way too far. A lot of instances could be considered rape, but shouldn't be.

-This summer I was at my house doing shots with my friend and after seven or eight shots and a lot dancing we left to go to her boyfriend's house. I was so drunk, I didn't even remember the ride there (someone else drove us). I passed out on the couch and half an hour later, some guy walks in. We start chatting (as much as I could seeing as I was sloshed out of my mind). At some point, I start throwing pennies at him and he warns me that he's going to "f*k me senseless" if I did it again. Everything was funny, so I kept doing it. And what happened? We started to have sex, it started hurting, I told him to stop, he continued for a while until I pushed him off me. Of course, I ended up giving him a BJ anyway. Now I was drunk as fiddler's bitch, and he was sober, technically, it was rape since I was "by law" too intoxicated to be of sound mind, but I didn't cry foul. Sure, in the morning I felt horrible about it. Guilty, disgusted etc....but I didn't run to the cops.

At the end of the day, drunk or no drunk, it's a decision you consciously make. Alcohol doesn't give you a pass to do anything you want. People have some sense of self control, I mean, we don't go around f*ing our sisters or cousins because we got drunk.

"Adultery makes a party go such a swing!" Naomi——Skins.