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The Only Way to Deal with a Psychopath


I've read some of the posts stating that it was wrong of Slim to get rid of her husband they way that she did, because it was no longer self defense. But I want to say that Slim's actions was one of the only ways to deal with her psychopathic husband. Normal people can't reason with someone like Mitch, because he is a psychopath, which means that he is mentally disturbed and unreasonable even though he appears charming to most people who meet him. His only goal was to get Slim killed once she found out how devious of a human being he truly was. In a situation like this, the target has to get out of the situation and plan on a way to deal with the psychopath. That's why most psychopaths in movies get killed after their target gets away and has a chance to analyze the psychopaths behavior and pinpoint their weaknesses.











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It's a stupid movie, but I'll disagree anyways. Killing someone, even if they are a "psychopath", isn't all that easy, practically or psychologically. Killing someone at close range, hand to hand, is particularly unpleasant. And besides, Mitch was stupid, unreasonably stupid, in the last scene. All he would have had to do is get his hands on a decent weapon of opportunity (a lamp is one of my favorites in a house. A can of oven cleaner works well too) and Slim's little duke-it-out fantasy would have been over.

Best bets for dealing with psychopaths:
1) don't deal with them at all. Avoid them.
2) get away from them as fast as you can if you ignore #1. Get them out of your life.
3) get the police/law involved and get their behavior documented if you ignore #2. The cops are paid to deal with psychos (and they usually deal with them 2 or 3 on 1).
4) go for the most convenient weapon available if you ignore #3 and hope you get a sympathetic jury.

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Exactly how do you pinpoint a psychopath? They don't exactly shout it from the rooftops.

Your little list here is exactly what the character in the movie did (Excluding number one, because you can't tell just by looking at someone rather or not they are a psychopath), except #2 & #3 are reversed.



Homer: [after hitting a deer statue] D'oh!
Lisa: A deer!
Marge: A female deer!

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How long exactly before Mitch "turned" into a nutcase? Gracie was what, 4 years old? I know Ginny said in the movie that men can turn suddenly after years or whatever, but really? Perhaps when he threatened the older man into selling his house ("A psychopath can make you miserable every day until you sell") should have been a hint to Slim. Instead of standing there smiling, she should have thought "That was the wrong thing to say." Unless she couldn't hear him.

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She couldn't hear him. He kind of said it in a movie-styled "hushed" tone, to show the audience that something wasn't quite right with him, and to show how oblivious Slim was.

Homer: [after hitting a deer statue] D'oh!
Lisa: A deer!
Marge: A female deer!

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You can tell by people's behavior. How do they treat others? Do they seem to care about other people's needs and desires or only their own? Psychopathology is a personality disorder in which the psychopath is indifferent to the rights of others and violates said rights for their own benefit. The problem is that people often want to see things in the other person that aren't there, or ignore their own instincts about someone in the hope that they'll change or that they really aren't that bad.

My personal test is to see how people treat service people. (at stores, restaurants, etc.) Rudeness is a bad sign.

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Pimp slapped...people who hit their spouse are cowards. and that goes for both men and women.

GET THAT LEGLESS WITCH OUT OF HERE!

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Thank god someone said it! I agree with this completely.

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After my original post, I also have to state that the movie does a good job of going through the stages of a relationship with a psychopath. First, the psychopath selects the target, then the psychopath charms the target and makes sure the target is fooled into seeing what the psychopath wants the target to see, then the psychopath entraps the target and tries to dominate the target, alot of times subtly, throughout the course of the relationship, then the psychopath lets down the mask and shows the target the real person. It's really a game of predator and prey.
And as another poster said, psychopaths don't exactly shout out how disturbed they are so it does take a while for the target to realize this and the realization is usually gradual.








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no, MITCH was not a psychopath. MITCH was a sociopath with psychopathic tendencies. i suggest you all watch sliding doors. this is a great example of sociopath behavior.



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Actually, by most definitions Mitch could be classified as a psychopath with ASPD. The DSM isn't very clear on the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath, and people with ASPD can exhibit varying degrees of traits assigned to both.

That being said, @ tommythegun, treatment of waiting staff isn't always a good indicator either. I dated a guy once who was a total sociopath and on our first date, he was very civil. In fact, when I first met him, he was very shy and quiet and I found it endearing. It wasn't until later that I realized how very different he really was from the way he acted around everyone else. I'm glad I got out when I did.

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I agree. Thanks for being smart.

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