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The Slowest Movie Ever Made (and my story of how I saw it)


I saw this film when it was out in theaters and to this day, I use it as an example of the slowest moving, most boring movie i have ever sat through. I came on this board tonight because I was watching a film on IFC and when I went to the IMDB page for that movie, this one was listed as one of the five films "You May Also Like". Anyway, here is my 'in the bedroom' story:

I was just out of college and was home for the summer when my friend and I happened upon a small coffee shop about twenty-five minutes away from home. Working in the shop was a beautiful young woman, and her friend who was visiting her at work. So, we talk to the girls, and get their numbers. Over the next few days, my friend calls the girl he met, who promptly tells him to not call her again, lol, and I start talking with the other girl, Jen, every day. Turns out she is 18, and a senior in High School. I visit her at work several times, and we are starting to really like each other, so I asked her out on a more 'formal' date-to the movies. My car ended up in the shop so Jen is going to pick me up for the date to go see 'In The Bedroom'. Well, i'm excited, waiting for her to show up, when the doorbell rings. I open the door and there she is, all dressed up, and she says "We're here! Lets go, I don't want to be late.". I was confused about the "We're", until I get to the car and realize.....her dad is driving. I was 23 years old and my date's DAD is driving us to the movies....but it got worse......Her dad wanted to come IN TO THE MOVIE with us. She actually had to BEG him to go to a different movie. Talk about AWKWARD. Finally, we go in to the movie and we are alone. We sit down and proceed to watch 'In the Bedroom'. Sadly, THAT is when the worst part of the night came to fruition. What seemed like eight hours later, mercifully, the movie ended.

Think this post was long and boring? It makes In The Bedroom look like a high-speed chase. Ten years later (wow, I can't believe it has been THAT long!), and I seriously STILL use this film as a reference point for boring movies. And for anyone that wants to say "Sorry there are no explosions and chases", I LOVE indie films, black and white films, foreign films, etc. I can't stand (the vast majority), of big budget action flicks.

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I thought it was a pretentious pile of garbage. My wife, sister-in-law and I laughed through the last half as we realized all the heavy handed symbolism was supposed to be profound. A sad, and excruciatingly boring, excuse for a movie.

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There's much slower and drawn out movies than this. You should try watching Vera Drake for example (still a quality film)

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This is a film for adults that appreciate good drama. Was it perfect? No, but it is still better than 90% of films that play today in the Multiplex theaters that pander to the easily bored obsessive texting video playing "Ritalin" crowd.

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So you took a girl on a date to a film which is basically an essay on grief. And then complain it was boring. Sounds like someone didn't get laid and now they're bitter. Don't blame the film. That was you're fault.

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ROFL!
Did you see her again? What happened later on?

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Have you ever thought that's the point?

It's about ordinary people and not shocking or incredibly surprising/enticing but unsettling actions in their lives and how they handle them.

I agree, there are parts in the movie where I thought it was extremely boring, but this is the film's atmosphere. I loved the simplicity of it all, and appreciated the artistic merit it had for showing glamorous cinematic shots and angles of the characters to where they captured every scene without actually being magnificent.

I don't know if I got out exactly what I'm trying to say here to where you understanding, but yes, there is slow build up, yes, there are scenes of characters like Sissy Spacek's just smoking a cigarette, but it is just as real as life and that's why I appreciate it.

All the performances were spot on, and out of five nominations I'm surprised Spacek didn't at least when Best Actress...

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In the Bedroom - 8/10

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Slowest? Then you didn't watched Cristian Mungiu's films. "4 Months, 3 Weeks and 2 Days" or "Beyond The Hills".

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4 Months, 3 Weeks and 2 Days
Oh, I love that movie ... though my husband snored through the entire thing lol.

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