As a cancer survivor I found this movie intensely difficult. My own particular defence mechanism is total ignorance, knowledge is strictly on a need-to-know basis. (I will not watch "House" for the same reason).
I was initially attracted to this movie by Emma Thompson, she did an excellent job, and the literary backdrop was fantastic. I can recommend this title IF you are completely comfortable being confronted with (or should that be "slapped in the face with") your own mortality. Personally, my skin is still crawling.
We performed this play as our contest UIL one act, and it was the most amazing and rewarding experiences Ive ever had. It was such a difficult play to do, having to cut so much out so it would be a one act, so it was down to the bare basics of the plot, and it was still really very difficult to get the emotions down just right. We performed this play at rehersals and at contest probably 80 times, and it had the cast, crew, and audience in tears almost every time. We saw this play and we were in it so much, and it still brought us to tears seeing it. Its an amazing work.
I had never heard of Wit before, and borrowed it from the library because Thompson was in it. Needless to say, I had no expectations. ... I can't remember the last time a film made me cry like Wit did. I was awfully shaken and sad, I almost felt sick while watching it. Even though the "theatre-like" style bothered me in the beginning of the film, and I found the poetry-reading a bit melodramatic, I still think this film and Thompson's character grasped what it can mean to be terminally ill. This with the different advancing, almost mechanical, stages of the illness, the different aspects of humiliation, the loneliness and the need for human contact.
In this very concentrated film room was given for a silent seriousness that I have very rarely seen in other films concerning illness and death.
Thanks for sharing your story and starting this thread, Adaros 71!
I watched Wit in my AP English class this week because of its context of Jon Dunn. I do admit that it was a good movie, a very good movie. It was very powerful and amazing. However, I hated it. I hated it for the too-fresh memories it dug back up.
In December, my mom died of a skin disease called graffers' host (sp) after undergoing a bone marrow transplant for non hotchkins lymphoma (sp again). This movie was so right on the money it was scary. Everything from the medical jarkin to the movements (the hands, the facial expressions, the eyes, eat, shaking) everything reminded me of my mom. It was by far the hardest movie I have ever watched. So hard I spent the last half of the class period today after it finished crying in the last stall in the bathroom. It was by far the worst experience since my mom died I had gone through. I'm glad I watched it though, and even though I "hate" that movie so much for redigging those memories again, I really want to watch it again. But I know I wont. It was by far the hardest thing not to leave the class the past two days. I do applaud the cast and crew for making this movie but I do wish I had been warned.
This is a message for Artstar04. I lost my dad to non hodgkins lymphoma. I agree that Emma got so many details right - the hand movements - the eyes. I wanted to tell you that you are not alone and that I am so sorry for your loss. This movie would be brutal in any circumstance.
uutuus I had never heard of Wit before, and borrowed it from the library because Thompson was in it. Needless to say, I had no expectations.
I was in a similar situation. I picked up the DVD in the library after seeing Emma Thompson on the cover. Two main things stuck out for me. Not just some statistics on a chart. I was
1) The humanity and compassion of the nurse, played by Audra McDonald. She seemed to be the only one to remember Thompson was a human being. Not just some statistics on a chart. I was humiliated for her when the doctor just yanked up her gown for the students, with the door open like it was nothing.
2) The reflections of Thompson's character back on her life. Those were as painful if not more, than her reactions to the cancer. All of the regrets she couldn't do anything about. How unforgiving she treated her students. How she chose the library over living life.
The poetry of hard truths over popsicles was touching too.
Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.
I totally agree...this was a difficult movie to watch but at the same time moving and scary. I've thought of every woman I have ever loved, or will love (my mother, sister, daughter, co-worker, etc) as well as myself going through a similar experience and being or feeling alone, as you might ultimately feel after a while. Nevertheless it is a beautiful movie which got me to donate to the American Cancer Society.
Wow! This was an amazing movie! I usually do not cry during movies but,on several ocassions during this movie I had to wipe away tears. Both of my parents passed away from cancer (both very close to the age of Emma T.)... The detail of the disease, treatment and introspection was so true to my parents experience. It was chilling.
I have to tell you, I, too, was so deeply moved by this movie, that when it was finished, I sat there and shook. I have been lucky so far in my life to not have anyone close to me affected by cancer. My father has had heart problems; my husband's side of the family, too, but not cancer. I did not have HBO when I heard of this movie. I had read some reviews and "talk" in various morning news shows, so I was interested. I have always been a HUGE fan of Emma Thompson~all the way back to "Dead Again", when she didn't speak for a lot of the movie. Needless to say, I was floored watching this. I think the 2 scenes that affected me the most was when she was grunting in such pain; it made me feel sick to hear it. I thought(and this is no comparison)of when I was in labor; that was real pain, but you have people doting on you and not treating you like you were an object. The second, was the final scene, when she was saying the words of John Dunne and there was the close-up of her "dead" face. The make-up job was amazing; she looked like a real cancer patient. The pale skin, the "blackened" eyes; it was almost too scary to look at. I will never forget it~not only the acting, but the impact it personally made on me. The lack of respect that a person CAN be shown and unfortunately, when in such a vulnerable situation that a person has no control over, HAS to accept. Many congrats to Emma Thompson and her true talent!
i almost didn't post on here...the movie was so touching and difficult at the same time, and i just finished watching it. i sat for 5 minutes just staring at the screen..watching the credits..tears rolling down my face... and this is one of the best performances i've ever seen..so dead on. i've been hospitalized..4 times now in the past year for crohn's disease. the first time, when i was diagnosed, the scene when she realized she couldn't do it, that nothing she had studied for had prepared her for that..practically replicated my experience..it was eery.. so many other experiences...the embarrasing colonoscopies, the measuring of the "output", "keep pushing the luquids"...ugh...so fimiliar i think the most touching scene was when her former teacher came and laid on her bed with her and read her that book...that's when i started crying.. and at the end when her nurse covers her up, is angry for the disrespect the staff gives her...i could hardly watch that... i want to watch the movie again..but i don't know if i could..
I agree. I recently had to watch this movie for my English class beacuase we were studying John Donne. This movie hit home for me. My Grandmother just died of cancer and it reminded me so much of this film. When my Grandmother was dying she would start talking about things that happened 10 years ago like they happened today. It was very hard for me to watch this film. I had a knot in my throat the entire time. Very good film. Very emotional.
I like many of you watched this because Emma Thompson was in it. It was very hard to watch, I didnt like it at first but I could not turn it off! I was reduced to tears by the end and I couldnt move for at least 20 minutes after it finished, just thinking about my life and my mortality. Incredible acting by Emma Thompson.
I had the same reaction that most of you have had to this beautiful, chilling and finally heartbreaking film. It really makes you consider your own mortality more than almost any other film I've seen. I watched it again last night and I was in floods of tears by the end. I always loved Emma Thompson, but my respect for her went up tenfold after witnessing her amazing performance here. Eileen Atkins and Audra McDonald also did excellent supporting work.
So was mine after I watched it and I've never had cancer. In fact, I was so down and depressed when it was over that I drove to the post office at midnight to mail it back to Netflix. When I got home I put in a DVD of "Keeping Up Appearances" just to be able to laugh again.
I agree with you: it is a hard movie to watch. My "banned to watch" movies include: Shawshank Redemption, Shindler's List and Sophie's Choice. Just can't watch them.
"Very early in my life it was too late." - Marguerite Duras