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I've had Cancer....


I have been diagnosed with Cancer twice in my life (I am 23) and had nine aggressive sessions of Chemotherapy. I have seen this film before I first got Cancer and twice after - I have to say the hardest was after I had my own experiences. Everything Dr. Bearing went through, so did I. The sickness, the fevers, the sweats, the anxiety, etc. Those beautiful moments in the film when Dr. Bearing would lie in her room, in complete silence I myself would do - with the blinds shut, the world cut off the world would pass me by and I would think of my own mortality and death.

A particular scene struck a chord with me - When I would lie in my hospital bed My Mum would wet a flannel and rub it all over my hands - not only was it soothing it was therapeutic. When you have Chemo your senses are all turned around so to have someone very softly massage your hands is like heaven. It was beautiful when Susie rubbed lotion on her hands...

I have to say the scene that got me blubbering uncontrollably was when Dr. Bearing's professor came to visit and read her the beautiful, simple and charming 'Runaway Bunny' - I would get my mum to read to me too in hospital.

I myself never really had any doctors or consultants who were cold or bad at their job - one consultant who didn't really have the human touch left before I even started my treatment and then I got a loving consultant who I see on a regular basis.

A beautiful, sad film that rightly deals with the realities of Cancer and Chemotherapy and what it can do to the human spirit.

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I just saw it again....
wow!
wonderful film...

and than you for sharing ClaireAllen...much love to you..

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I have terminal pancreatic cancer. I saw this movie and cried at the end...not for me but for Vivian. I have a sensitive, caring oncologist and am being treated in a facility that has a staff concerned about me as a person. This wonderful movie showed me what could have been and what many cancer patients have to endure. Mike Nichols and Emma Thompson have managed to portray this subject in a way that is never maudlin nor melodramatic. In journalistic terms, this movie is a "think piece." There is so much that is significant in this play/movie.

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^hope you are all still doing ok.

What ever you do, DON'T FALL ASLEEP.-Nancy Thompson RIP

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As someone who worked with and has been around patients with Cancer and other often terminal diseases this film is very accurate in the portrayal of what patients can face. It can be painful to watch a film like this, but it can help to educate. It is shown in Medical Schools to educate medical personal on patient treatment.

It is sad and painful to watch anyone ill and suffering. Seeing young children who are very ill is particularly painful. The staff who work at infusion centers where patients with cancer and AIDS are treated have to deal with these types of scenarios on a daily basis. It can be a heart wrenching job and while not all are as compassionate as they should be, there are some very kind and caring people who are very much unsung heroes. To those kind and caring souls we all owe a debt of gratitude for making a difference in lives of their patients.

Though we have a long way to go in treating cancer, treatments have been improving and will continue to improve. Trying to find drugs that are effective and have few/mild side effects can be very challenging. Improving diagnostic techniques so illness can be detected early and reliably will also help.

It is important to make sure patients are treated with compassion and that we make every effort on their behalf. Helping patients to keep a positive attitude has been shown to provide a better outcome in their treatment.

Stay healthy!

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You might like "God Said Ha" which is a one woman show about Julia Sweeny's experience with cancer. (Pat from Saturday Night Live)

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I know your post is 6 years old, however, I just wanted to let you know that I hope you are doing okay. My Sister had Breast Cancer 15+ years ago and she is cancer free. I know how hard her battle was with Chemo, Mastectomy, etc., and I wish that no one had to endure that. Wishing continued health for you. :)

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