The message of this movie *SPOILERS*

i disagree. i wrote this long entry in another thread, so i cut what i wrote on the "is it just me?" and have pasted below.


the point is somethign deep deep inside of him was telling him it was wrong to be with moynihan. people DO cancel weddings at the last minute, sometimes the day of or at the altar. Its tough, but better in the long run than marrying the wrong person. its inconsiderate, hurtful, painful etc, but think of the alternative. we got one shot at life, and those feelings in your gut, that little voice telling you, there's such a tendency to drown it out, and that makes for miserable lives. moynihan, and anyone that happens to, is ALWAY BETTER OFF being left at the last minute than living a life with someone who can never resolve feelings for someone else.

one final thing that i just thought of and is important. Cusack spent the time searching for sara befor the rehearsal dinner - and it was the only time he was distant, and she picked up on it and said she wanted her fiance to be totally in it, and he at that point was feeling like a fool for being a slave to these deep impulsed. she said "let it go" and he said "i think it let ME go." at that moment he WAS resolved to move on with his life and forget sara, accepting that fate didnt want it to be, it was NOT his destiny. and at THAT VERY MOMENT, moynihan gave him the long lost book with sara's name. AT that point, of COURSE he's gonna call off the wedding. His whole life came down to that moment. If she doesnt get that book, he marries her and makes a life with her. for he does love her, and hes tried for dara and the universe said no, he'll move on. but the uiverse said YES, and so the right thing is what happens it does not IN ANY WAY make him "selfish", etc.

Poor Bridget Moynahan ... first Cusack drops her, then Tom Brady ...