Pushy parents tend to insist that as long as their September through December birthday kid is born in the same calendar year as those kids born in January of that year then their kid belongs in the same grade as the January kids. Many states have outlawed this view and have a birth date cutoff point at the beginning of September for entry into elementary school, otherwise that child must wait a year. In other words, a grade's membership chronology will begin around September 1st of a year and then end around August 31st of the following year. In the seventh grade the students are supposed to be twelve and heading to thirteen, the kids born in September should be the first ones heading to thirteen and the last ones will turn thirteen over the summer, no later than August 31st of the following calendar year. In states which have no such education laws the pushy parents will ignore all of this and still allow their kid to be younger and smaller than everybody else, causing him or her social and psychological problems. I've seen way too many cases of smaller and younger kids pushed into the wrong grade and then getting picked on and struggling in school. Those kids then develop different ways of coping, ranging from just plain giving up to becoming nasty and belligerent. Many of these parents still never "get it" and let their kids continue to struggle and fight but some eventually do and have their child repeat a grade, usually an early one, thus to readjust and be older and more of the same size as the other kids, as well as psychologically on a more even keel. Trevor may have been an exceptional kid to begin with and pushed up without troubles due to his advanced learning and abstract thinking abilities.
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