Damn, Vicious you should lighten up lol.. I used to have the same problem as you. I ALWAYS got pocketed away in the friend zone. First of all, you need to realize that it's not women that's the problem, it's you. I'm just taking a guess here, but the reason you may be getting friend zoned is because you are approaching your women as a friend, or just not being aggressive enough. Women don't like being treated like crap, most don't anyways. That story you told about the girl telling you she got date raped, yeah, she's an attention whore, lotta girls like to play the rape card so they can hear their guy friend say 'oh jeez that's awful, i can't believe someone would do that to you, you are so beautiful and innocent, etc." In reality she probably had the *beep* of her life or got drunk and *beep* a guy at a party and is just twisting things to get the attention she wants from you. No girl that was actually raped would just go around talking about it for sympathy.
Anyways, I'm rambling but if it helps, have good self esteem, take care of yourself, workout from time to time and go after the woman you want. Most women want a guy that knows how to take control. (Don't take that to mean you should be a controlling person, nobody likes losers like that.) Don't supplicate or suck up to women, they hate it. Above all else, don't be shy about dealing with sex, if you are that is. Women like it just as much as we do, they just can't be open about it like we can. They need you to make the initial moves. Be the man, be yourself, be confident, it works trust me.
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mogwai996
13 years ago
Oh, and if you are stuck on one of those girls that has you friend zoned, just move on, it's probably never gonna happen for you. Not to say you shouldn't have girls as friends, just don't expect to get anywhere sexually with them.
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viscousblister
13 years ago
the next time a woman tells me "lets just be friends" i'm going to go to her house and take a huge *beep* in her front doorstep in the middle of the night. Let's see how she likes that.
in the meantime i'll just stick with porno movies and prostitutes.
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stephenpaultaylor
11 years ago
i find it rather insane that you feel the need to blame all of womankind because you strike out all the time.
I have tons of luck with the ladies... I mean, a lot. I used to get friendzoned in the past and I have a few ideas as to why...
In the past I didn't have much of a backbone. I would put women on pedestals. I didn't know how to flirt. Do you?
Flirting is an art. You have to act interested and yet mysterious. Flirting is a game. You don't sit around telling women they are 'beautiful'. Rarely if ever do that. That's the quickest way to get rejected.
My girlfriend now is the prettiest girl I've ever dated. How did I get her? Through playing the game. She would make comments and I would react a bit tongue-in-cheek. For example: she is from Finland. I'm from Canada. She said "I heard Finland and Canada are very similar" and I said "Yeah, we both have clouds". THAT is the sort of thing you do. It makes them intrigued in you. "Why is he not showering me with compliments?" etc. They have to desire YOU.
It could also be an issue of self-love. Do you love yourself? Are you confident? Secure with who you are? Ambition is attractive. You don't have to be a "tough guy". You have to be yourself, but never ever generic and don't (as I said) smother them with compliments. *beep* that *beep* I rarely compliment my gf. Keeps her on her toes ;)
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viscousblister
11 years ago
I'm just going to watch porn and buy hookers the rest of my life. I'm convinced that's the way it is. you can say "i think that's beneath you" all you want. i don't care anymore.
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