Final episode-setting the record straight
I read an old thread about Kim and Lindsey going off to follow The Dead for a couple of weeks. Some outrageous conclusions were drawn about what was expected of them. It's been said that they would probably be expected to have sex. This is borderline rape, and is far removed from what the scene was about. I'm a 48 year old deadhead, so take it from me.
First of all, The Grateful Dead scene was about love, sharing, and most of all the music. Going to see The Dead was like going to church. It was very spiritual. In 1980, this was more so the scene than the late 80s after the band gained popularity. Their first ever radio hit prompted yuppies to jump on board just to see what it was about. Sure, there was always some guys that went because they wanted the drugs and thought it was a great opportunity to get lucky, but in Kim's and Lindsey's case, they tagged along with true deadheads. Not only that, but it was only two of them and they appeared to be a couple. Money wouldn't have been an issue because ticjets were cheap and if they needed food people share. Hell, one of the great things about the scene, was you could get lucky and score "a miracle". That's a free ticket from a kind soul who expected nothing in return but good vibes at the show.
Secondly, and it takes a deadhead to recognize this, Lindsey was home. You can see it as she was dancing in her bedroom to American Beauty. She didn't know it just yet but The Dead family was her family. All throughout the series she struggled with a belonging. She didn't belong at home with clueless parents. She didn't belong with the mathletes. Finally, she didn't belong with the freaks. In fact, none of the freaks really belonged there, and the final episodes showed all of them finding their place. Ken belonged with Amy. Daniel really did have fun with the geeks. And Nick was cleaning himself up with Sarah. The only one who remained lost was Kim, but she may find TGD to be to her liking. It was definitely home for Lindsey. I smiled so much while I watched her dance, and nearly cried of happiness for her when she got on board the VW van.