Cole and Malcom say goodbye to each other and they're both like, "I'll see you tomorrow", but you know that they won't. It's so sad in a way because Cole has helped Malcolm and Malcolm has helped Cole both so much. Then you know Malcolm has to pass eventually. Then I cry really hard at the end when he tells his wife that he loves her and fades to white.
Heath Ledger Come Back, This isn't funny, at all.
i teared up during the discussion between cole and his mom in the car near the end where he tells her about talking to grandma and that she watched her dance. very moving scene.
It's hard to watch this movie and not cry. When you think about it, the whole thing is very sad. One of the saddest movies ever. I cry mostly for the character of Cole because of the things he must endure. But the scene that really gets me is the one after his mother sends him away from the dinner table, and she is trying to get the dog out from behind the laundry basket and Cole come in and asks if she is not mad at him could he sleep in her room. Then she holds him and he starts to cry which makes her cry. Devastating. And acted to perfection. It still boggles my mind that Osment did not win the Oscar for this. He is perfection.
I cry buckets every time. Especially at the end, when Malcolm realizes he is dead.
I am a widow; I lost my husband at a relatively young age, and the complex grief one goes through just rips you apart. Even after all the years since his passing, I still maintain a shelf of his belongings and four photos with a candle. On certain significant days, anniversaries and such, I sit in his favorite chair, near his belongings, watch this movie or another few special movies that were significant to us, and just grieve. It is the only way I can walk around and act normal on other days.
Part of me hopes he is still with me in some sense, like Malcolm is with his wife, and the other part of me hopes he is not trapped in some bizarre half-life, that he is simply gone.
I have learned how to live with the loss, but the scar will always be there.
"You're so analytical! Sometimes you just have to let art... flow... over you." The Big Chill
I am so sorry for your loss! My sister lost her husband about 6 years ago, and as with you she has her own ways of handling and grieving his loss. He even used to visit her from time to time, and she absolutely loved it. I don't think he has in a while so I hope he has passed over and is not in limbo somewhere. The visits can be comforting, very much unlike what Cole experiences!