Explicit sex scenes
Hi...
I posted this message in sequence to another thread, but I figured it deserves its own.
In reply to a message on "Favorite scene?" thread:
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I actually have the same kind of curiosity.
How exactly is the so famed initial anal sex scene?
- is it explicit?
- are they body doubles?
- I read (here on IMDB) that Tony Leung Chiu Wai didn't know he was supposed to do a gay sex scene. Where does this information come from? And can't this actually be considered immoral (to drag someone to a film, and due to some artistic motivation be forced to do such a scene)?
Now that I've placed my questions, I must ensure that I'm not a conservative kind. Definitly not right wing! But still this issue of explicitness of sex in films is a controversy to me... And I'm not just talking about gay scenes like in this film, but straigh sex (like in "Lucia y el Sexo" or "Idioterne", which are, by the way, among my favorite). On one hand I understand there can be an especific purpose to it, but on the other, in most cases I've seen the explicit penetration were not necessary since everything else we're seeing is disturbing enough or serves the purpose. In the end, to me, it only reflects the arrogance of the directors (he knows we, the audience, are vulnerable to he's whishes).
The other issue is when the actors accept to do these explicit scenes. On "Lucia y el Sexo" and "Idioterne" I know they were body doubles. (but I was impatiant to know this ever since I've finished seeing the films). Some may suggest that it's nonesense to think that actors would do that in a film, and that doubles (porn actors) are used. But I've read (also here on IMDB) that there's an actress (european, if I recall correctly), that has perfomed an explicit blowjob.
Some may find this a conservative standpoint, but let me argue:
First, I believe anyone should do what they want. I'm not against porn, on the contrary! I actually applaude porn for being honest. It is what it is, and it serves it's purpose!
Now, other films and actors use a double standard. It's porn in a porn film, but art in an art film.
Furthermore, you can just ask yourselves why does a couple break up (not always, I understand) when one of them has sex with someone else? And more than that, what do you think is going through his (or her) mind? Especially if the other one is caught in the act! It becomes revolting!
The point is that in a film the actress (or actor) would be doing something which we imediatly interpret in that specific way. We almost always tend to understand and put ourselves in a character's shoes, a natural behavior. I believe that's not too far from trying to understand the actors. So in a way they become people "close" to us. And what would you think if your girlfriend, boyfriend or just friend would just have sex with someone in front of you and a room full of people?
By now you must be thinking I'm contradicting myself, because I said that I don't mind porn. The difference is exactly in the fact that because porn is so honest in that sence, it become much more bearable. Whereas in a "normal" film, hiding it under artistic motivation only makes it more sadistic. Just as one would feel if a girlfriend (or boyfriend) would say to you, after having sex with someone else: "It was just sex, it didn't mean anything" DOES IT MATTER? (by the way, I never understood people who say that as an attempt to smoothen things!) I think this applies to non conservatives as well!!! Don't think most non conservatives would reply: "Ok honey, we're a progressive couple! Was it good for you???"
Well, don't know if I explained myself. Hope it was clear. I respect anyone who would not agree with me, so I'm open to comments.
Anyways, this is way too long a post, so I also hope I haven't bored or annoyed anyone.
Thanks for reading!
Peace
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