My Wife


Almasy refers to Katherine as his wife in the scene where he was trying to convince the British soldiers for a car and a doctor.
I found it incredibly romantic yet little bewildering..
May I know what others made out of that scene?

p.s-For those who have read the book...
Katherine didn't want to die in the desert yet she did and she had envisioned an elaborate funeral for her, did she get it? Did anyone ship her body off to England after they found her in the desert?


Excuse my English, it's not my native tongue.

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Yes I remember that moment and he also named her his wife when Hanna Opened his book and asked him who was K, he replied Katherine my wife.

I guess at the end he saw her as his wife or said so because that's what he later wanted to Happen, Almasy was so in love with her that he wanted to marry her and be together.

on what happened to Katherine after the accident I guess it's up to our interpretation.I don't think she had the funeral she wanted but I guess the people who picked up Almasy did something with Katherine's body

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Thank you for your reply. I think I was wondering more in the lines of they got secretly married somewhere or rather they had some romantic thing between them that only they knew and which meant something like marriage to them... so it was all Almasy the whole marriage thing... kind of feels like he invested more in this affair than Katherine though...



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I haven't read the book so I don't know exact answer.
I just the film which I loved by the way and my answer was based more on interpretation so don't take it as the definitive answer lol

I think they were equally invested in that affair and they loved each other very much that's why it's so sad when she dies because what Almasi and Katherine had was real.

I want to read the book but I'm hesitating Since everyone says how the film is much better but still I'm planning to read it, I've also heard a lot how the book is more focused on Hanna and Kip.

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I just wanted through like every post on this board and know how much you love this movie. I have read the book, or well I have listened to (read by Ralph <3) and I really think you should read the book it is fantastic But when doing so you should see it as a different thing and not compare it to the movie. both the movie and The book is great But they are tro completley different experiences and stories even, the book focuses more on Hanna and Kip as you assumed. But it is still great. Just don't compare them, that will ruin it for you. :)

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Sorry for taking so long to answer you back.

Thanks so much for your review on the book and I also want it read by Ralpn. I'm sure it was great to hear him describe all the love scenes with his voice hehe.

Not really, I'm gonna try it and like you said think of it as something different and not comparing while reading it or listening to it. Hearing the book read by Ralph was a hot experience Lol

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Oh yes. four hours with that voice is a fabulous experience. :) I found it as a fluke, was going to buy something for a friends birthday and since her and me became friends through Ralph, sorta. I had to buy something Ralph-related, and couldn't help but give myself a copy.

But i definetly think you should give it a chance. It's a really good book.

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Woow you are so lucky, him reading that book with hi sexy voice is something I'd love to hear. So I guess I won't read till i find the the audiobook with my sexy Ralph

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Got so sad the other day tho. I wanted to listen to it right after I saw the movie, and then I realised the book is at my moms. I just moved and couldn't bring all my stuff, lack of space. Sadly TEP was one thing I didn't bring.

I have to make do with all the Ralph that's on spotify. And I found my copy on Amazon.

I looked around for a bit. This is what I can seem to find, without looking further.

http://www.amazon.com/The-English-Patient/dp/B000KLPQ8K

When I was about to buy this book, it only had a small sample one could listen to. about a minute or so. *drowning in Ralphs voice*

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Read the book! It explains a lot of things the film glosses over.

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Interesting question- I wondered about this myself and put it down to wishful thinking. Then I thought back to the scene where he plays her the Hungarian music and jokes about the meaning of the song (telling her it's about their situation and she hits him).
In that scene she says something like 'Here I am a different wife'. At the time I thought she meant a wife who does things she wouldn't dream of doing at home (having an affair). But maybe she was saying she's a different persons wife. Here she is his wife (in emotion and love if not in reality)...?

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I think you're reading too deeply into it. He obviously loved her deeply and perhaps even saw her as his wife. But from my perspective he said "wife' to the soldiers because it's going to sound alot better then "the lady i'm having an affair with who's husband just died". He had to make it sound convincing and legitimate so they would take him seriously and send help sooner.

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Ah, yes, probably I am..... But he calls her his wife on at least three different occasions throughout the film- to the British soldier in Italy trying to discover if he's a German or not.
Then to Hana when she offers to move him nearer the window and he says he can see his wife in that view.
Then to the soldiers when she's in the cave. I agree- it definitely made sense for him to lie about it then, but what about those other times?

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Squashyhat:

I think you're completely right about the scene in which Katherine says, "Here, I'm a different wife." The only reason I read through the thread was to see whether someone else mentioned it.

Look at all of the foreshadowing and symbolism in that extended stay with Almasy:

The day on which she chooses to linger with Almasy was supposed to have been her wedding anniversary, but as Geoffrey knows, she was likely to forget it anyway, which was why he intended to surprise her by coming home. In effect, it's the day on which she stops being Geoffrey's wife.

It's also the day on which Geoffrey learns of the affair because of how *long* she stays with Almasy. She stays the entire day and night, saying that she has time when Almasy assumes she has to get back. She not only stops being Geoffrey's wife, symbolically; she also becomes someone else's wife. She now "belongs" to Almasy, which is evidenced by his claim of "ownership" of her suprasternal notch. It is the first time he admits that he is so attached to her that he wants to possess her always, which he denied dismissively in an earlier scene.

It's the day and night on which the two lovers are allowed to feel comfortable being together at last without time constraints. They stop and look at Almasy's things together after lingering in bed listening to music because Katherine believes that Geoffrey won't be coming home. They do things together that they hadn't had time to do before and, despite Katherine's resigned pessimism and fear of hurting Geoffrey -- her best friend long before he was her husband -- they get a taste of what married life would be like. "Here, I'm a different wife" means both things, I think: "Here, I'm a person who would have an affair" (part of the reason she begs Geoffrey to stay with her before and return to England with her after) and "Here, I live an alternate life in which I'm secretly the wife of the man I truly love." This is also echoed in the scene in which he carries her to the cave; in which she says, "I've always loved you" and Almasy weeps openly for the first time.

When he buys her the object that she later wears around her neck -- wears it in precisely the place on her body he wishes to "claim" -- it becomes a symbol of their bond that is like a wedding ring. "I never stopped wearing it," she tells him as he carries her away from the plane.

Not "reading too much into" the story would mean not reading it at all. It would mean ignoring the thematic organization of the story and the mechanics of the plotting and writing, which involve not only the original author but also the screenplay writers who have to compress that story and tell it in far less time. The more unity, resonance and inevitability that all of those people can bring to the story, the more compelling its arc and affecting its conclusion will be.

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I didnt think of it then, but now that you say it, it was a beautiful scene


Darkness lies an inch ahead

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