I think alot of things are assumed about Bernard..... But Midnight-boy is right on. People misread the opening scene .... Bernard was NOT a child molester !!!!! He jumps into a school yard to play with the kids NOT hurt them and gets accused of trying to "grab itty bitty titty", but to find friendship !!! Of course this is a desperate place to find a friend, but he knows how lonely he is. This is not to say he is a balanced guy !!! Bernard is very weak. His only connection to love was his mother and she is gone. TMWTP was clearly not a loving dad and considered Jimmy more of a son. He wasnt the strong gangster son his dad would have respected. He was born weak and disturbed, but being in this family sure did not help! TMWTP loved Cynthia and Bernard was his connection to those days. The whole movie is kind of his effort to get back to those days when TMWTP danced !!! He was on top of the world !!! Now he is at the bottom !!! The message is, you can not go back !!! You can see in the garden that, even in the good times, Bernard was left outside of his fathers love and fun. He could not live up to dad! Once mom died he is left alone in the world. A "moon calf" as Billy Nunn calls him. But, he is a good heart, he is trying to find someone to love him....jimmy,his girlfriend,his dad, a kid in a school yard....anyone !!! You see his pain and frustration in the alley with the bum. I think he knows in that moment the only offer of friendship he gets is from a drunk in an alley. He is alone, he misses his girlfriend and his Mother, and he explodes in the disturbed way that he deals with things!!! Did you notice that Bernard is always alone in the movie? Alone looking for the love he once felt. He finds out like everyone in the movie....YOU CAN NOT GO BACK !!!!!! Life is lived and then its gone !!! You do your best, from the weak to the strong. The choices you make cannot be taken back....right or wrong.... big or small. The choices may make joy or sorrow, but you must live them then...in the moment, because they will soon be gone. When you look back on your life you will make a judgement on who you are and what you did, but you cannot go back and change it. So, if you are dancing with 2000 hooker in Paris.....turn up the music, be in that moment and LIVE !!!! When its all done we will sit on the deck and laugh at the memories ........ BOAT DRINKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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