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'We don't talk to anyone we don't know.'


When this movie came out I remember reading something about whether it reflected Generation X accurately; and one Gen Xer quoted said that he (or she) thought it did, including the characertistic "We don't talk to anyone we don't know." I'm a Baby Boomer and I'm wondering if that's true; and if so, do you think it is an attitude that has been carried on by GenYers, etc.? I've been thinking about it because the apartment complex where I live has recently become heavily populated by people in their twenties, who seem never to talk to anyone else, particularly "codgers" like me. I'm not particularly "friendly," but if I meet another tenant at, say, the laundry room or the mailboxes, I'll usually nod hello or something, and these kids go into "the zone" (i.e., if I don't notice you you don't exist). In the rare times where I've spoken to one of them about some problem in the complex, their reaction is a definite "Oh God, now I HAVE to talk with this being."

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I am a GenYer, and I speak to a lot of strangers. And - I - am the one to receive "why are you speaking to me? I don't know you" stares much of the time.

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I am Gen-Xer, apparently, and I like talking to strangers, most of the time. I think it must be a personal thing, not necessarily a generational one. Some days I enjoy talking to just anyone around, then other times I feel shy or just "vant to be alone" and daren't make eye contact with anyone.

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I'm 25 years old and would agree with the statement of not talking to anyone I do not know but I would add in a caveat of saying hello back to someone or saying hi in the laundry room, etc., unless I didn't hear them saying hello in the first place. I'm from NY, maybe that's why but most people I know are the same.

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well, yeah. once you talk to someone you get to know them.



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