I didnt like Bryan


Guy just didnt seem like husband material to me. Seemed like a guy who would go on far to many business trips, Annie would have been smart to marry one of the guys that worked at her dads shoe plant.

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No! In part 2 they fight because she gets a promotion in Boston and he doesn't want to move. When in part 1 he said he'd move anywhere she got a job.

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Apparently, you watched a completely different movie than the one everyone else watched. In "Father of the Bride, Pt. 2," Annie and Brian argued over the fact that she wanted to move to Boston so she could pursue an amazing opportunity that she had been given.

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I didn't mind the guy...he can't help that his work keeps him away. Now if he cheated or did something horrible like that on his business trips, then that's a different story. But in my mind, work doesn't make someone a bad husband...

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So, because his job sometimes required him to go away on business trips ... he's a horrible person? Are you kidding me?

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I think you may have wanted to reply to the OP? I didn't say he was a horrible person. I said if he cheated or did something horrible, that would make him a bad husband. The guy can't help that he works a lot and as his partner I'd want to be supportive, especially if it's a job that he really enjoys.

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I thought I did reply to the OP.

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Sorry, it looks like you responded to me on the thread...but looks like we share the same opinion. Just because the guy works a lot, he's a bad husband and a bad person? My boyfriend works a lot and I support him since I realize it's a calling. Brian seems the same way: hardworking, supportive, and wanting to make Annie happy.

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I didn't care for him either, but to be fair, that's probably just prejudice on my part. He just came across as one of those extremely bland, dull, uninspired but reassuringly competent people, who often come from privileged upper-middle-class families, and go through life never really having encountered any hardship. The kind of safe middle-brow cookie-cutter Ken-doll type who likes sports, soft music, is vehemently straight (and probably a little homophobic, but far too polite to express these views outside the company of his likeminded fraternity 'bros'), doesn't read too much (certainly not for pleasure) but got good enough grades at high school to go to a top college (probably one his parents have had their eyes on him joining for some time) without really excelling at anything in particular.

I've never understood what women see in guys like that, but then again, I guess these types of guys seem nice and safe and free of the annoying neuroses that plague the rest of us, which I suppose is attractive to some people. Then again, it's often those types of guys who turn out to be the ones who have affairs (often with prostitutes). They've found everything so easy in life that they think it won't hurt to try out some temptation, since they don't count on being caught.

Like I said, I'm probably just stereotyping and being unfair, but that's definitely the vibe he gave me.

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Yes, I hear you. That's why I kind of throw up in my mouth a little bit whenever I watch this. I have zero interest in the life Annie and Brian were going to live in Boston, it just screamed boredom to me. Welcome to suburbia and the 9 to 5 live Annie and Brian, yuck. Should have stayed in LA and partied and lived off their parents for a while. That's another story though, we know Brians parents were rich, but George wasn't exactly broke either, he was a company president for god sake, they made him out to be an average joe. God this movie sucked, thank god for Franc and Howard.

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Yes, I hear you. That's why I kind of throw up in my mouth a little bit whenever I watch this. I have zero interest in the life Annie and Brian were going to live in Boston, it just screamed boredom to me. Welcome to suburbia and the 9 to 5 live Annie and Brian, yuck. Should have stayed in LA and partied and lived off their parents for a while. That's another story though, we know Brians parents were rich, but George wasn't exactly broke either, he was a company president for god sake, they made him out to be an average joe. God this movie sucked, thank god for Franc and Howard.
I'd probably have had even less respect for Annie and Brian if they'd partied and lived off their parents' wealth, but at least they'd have been more interesting and fun to watch. Like you say, Franc and Howard were the only people that made this film watchable, and the idea that George was an average joe because he was 'only' on say $100K a year or whatever...

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Wow...it's not like you have some really specific, well thought out prejudices there.

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