I just finished watching the movie on IFC (I missed the first 10 or so minutes though..oh well) and I absolutely loved it. That last scene was perfect.
The way I saw that scene, though, was that both Rose and Eddie had moved on. Or, this was the final push to help them both move on.
They both had to go through so much crap (all the feelings and opinions she had about war, politics, love - everything - and Eddie having to live through war, losing his friends and growing up) and each one helped the other to mature and become the person they were meant to be.
Rose helped Eddie see that there was more to life than the Marine Corps and being immature with his buddies. Eddie helped Rose live her life more - he opened her up to a world she had probably never seen before.
I think by the time Eddie got back from Vietnam, they had both used that night to help them mature as people. It wasn't about romantic love anymore - it was just about this relationship between two human beings.
I mean, at the end of the movie, they are both in a good place (kind of). Rose owns the coffee shop and seems very happy. Her appearance and manner suggest that she has grown into the kind of woman she wanted to be. She looks much more liberated, thanks (most likely) in part to that night she spent with Eddie.
Eddie, while he certainly doesn't look as happy as Rose, is definitely in a place where he can grow to be happy. After living through the war, he is obviously not as devoted to his 'brothers' and the Marines as was before. Everything Rose told him stayed with him and now he's realizing that he needs to make a change.
Someone was talking about the distance that was between him and his friends - I think now he can accept that distance and explore what he really wants out of life.
After this scene, I imagined them seperating, looking at each other with a very deep understanding, and then Eddie leaving.
I just think their connection was deeper than just romantic love.
I wish I could have been way more eloquent and concise but there it is, haha.
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