For all those who are 25-32, I am in need of your assistance...
I am a person who does not have the knowledge of the culuture you grew up in at a certain time, that time being 1990-1998.
What am I asking: I am currently doing a project that requires some understanding of the differences for culture of that time, specifically with respect to language. What I would like if you could, is tell me any and everything that was different or that happened in this time period in language. What kind of slang did you use, what did people often say, words, phrases, what did they quote. What would you do to insult a person, at the age of 14,15,16,17,18... In what words would express different feelings towards another, the most opvious being insults or anger. Ex: Today's culture, if someone got their ass handed to them someone might say "Owned" or even "pwned", what would you say instead back then.
I am desperate to understand the language, specifially the slang and common interaction language that people of this age used at this time, tell me what you did personally, what you remmber your friends did, or even what was a generally understood practice for language...
This would be a great great help, I welcome any form or amount of contribution...
Thank You!!
P.S. If you could also list what your favorite shows, films, or bands were at what time in your life, that would be amazing. Ex. When I was 17 I watched Rocko, Doug, listened to Weezer, Nirvana, Beck, and Collective Soul, and I loved Clerks, Pulp Fiction, and Se7en. Just an example~
LINGO From what I remember in the early-90s, the phrase "NOT!" from "Wayne's World" was very popular. Basically it was the 90s way of saying "Sike/Psyche!" For example, you might tell a nerdy kid "Hey, you're really cool...NOT!" Dorky, yes. "Yo mama" jokes were also really popular at that time lol.
-"You Can't Touch This" (1990-91, basically means "I'm too cool") -"Talk to the Hand" (1993-97, someone places their outstretched hand, almost like they're giving someone a Hi-Five. Except "Talk to the Hand" means that you don't want to hear what someone has to say) -Whatever! (c. 1996, almost the same as "Talk to the Hand") -Oh, and for some reason, kids LOVED doing that scene from "Home Alone" when Maculuay Culkin would put his hands on his face and scream.
MUSIC -The music of the decade went in weird spurts. Alternative and grunge were pretty big from about 1994-98 or so, then boy bands became really popular. You also had "gangsta rap" become big during that era, but it seemed to taper off a bit after Tupac and Biggie were killed in 1996-97. I would say music REALLY went downhill sometime after 1998.
TV SITCOMS -I know the TGIF sitcoms ("Family Matters", "Boy Meets World") were really big, and you can still find them on TV today. "Fresh Prince", "Full House", and "Blossom" were also really popular. Add to that "Home Improvement". Depending on who you ask, "The Simpsons" were also a lot funnier then as well. Out of those, I pretty much watched all of them, even though as a preteen, I knew "Full House" and "Blossom" were pretty damn corny. That being said, they were still better than most shows on TV.
CARTOONS -I loved "Doug" because it was a show geared at kids/teens, but it didn't pander to them. At the same time, it had elements that adults could enjoy as well...you just don't see that on TV too much anymore. I also remember "South Park" being VERY shocking when it first premiered. Same thing with "The Simpsons", but the "worst" thing Bart Simpson said was "hell".
OTHER -If you had cable you were cool, and back then you "only" got about 70 or so channels, including the premium channels. I know that sounds paltry, but back then each cable channel had its own identity, so you could actually find some variety, not to mention MTV still played MUSIC! -Talk shows were all over the place...seems like everyone had one, including Vanessa Huxtable from "The Cosby Show"... -There was no reality TV, except for maybe "The Real World" or "Road Rules". There was "Star Search" and other shows like that, but they were cheesy, and knew it. TV didn't take itself so seriously until the last 10 years or so. -Bob Barker banging his "Price is Right" models was a pretty big deal as well.. -Oh, and Alex Trebek had a mustache too lol
MOVIES Movies...I don't remember too many summer blockbusters. I mean, you had the occasional action flick ("Terminator 2", "Batman Returns/Forever"), but it wasn't like it is now, where every month, you have a big comic book-based movie or CGI action movie. Movies were made more to entertain, and not just because the producers knew it would make $300-400 million. Matter of fact, I'm pretty sure a $300 million pull was damn near unheard of 20 years ago, except for maybe "Batman". It seems like back then, movies aimed at the preteens/teens actually dealt with everyday kids in everyday life. Like with "Doug" they taught lessons without being over the top, and they could actually be seen as family movies, catering to both children and adults. I think that's one of the reasons I can still watch "The Sandlot", 16 years later.
MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION Not to be a snob, but I think my generation grew up right at the start of the political correctness movement, and I am so appreciative of the stuff we had in the late-80s/early-90s. There was no overbearing concern over McDonald's making you fat...mainly because you didn't get McDonald's (or any other restaurant) every damn day! You were still encouraged to go outside daily and get some fresh air. If you sucked at sports, so be it...if you got mocked for it, so be it. You could get into a fight with someone at school or in the neighborhood, and not be afraid of them retaliating with a weapon. Most importantly, PARENTS raised their kids, not the TV. If I repeated a dirty joke or comment from a TV show (say "Married...with Children"), plain and simple, I was told not to say it again and I just wasn't allowed to watch the show. Nowadays, an angry parent would march straight to FOX and picket outside the building! If you did something bad, you could get spanked (or at the very least smacked) and nothing would happen to your parents. Kids were allowed to be kids, and have creative imaginations.
I apologize for the long response, but you did bring back some pretty good memories. Seems like the 90s were better than I thought lol...thanks for the trip down memory lane and good luck with your project! :-)
And could you be more specific on "I also remember "South Park" being VERY shocking when it first premiered." Like just flesh it out more, more detail?
Btw, what about umm Doug, yeah, but Rugrats, Rocko, Hey Arnold, any of those other cartoons then?
THanks already for your first post, look forward to a second!!!
With "South Park", it was basically unheard of for an 8-year-old to cuss on TV. Like I mentioned earlier, you had Bart Simpson throw in the occasional "hell", but the SP boys were cussing up a storm (most of which was bleeped out), and outside of some HBO shows, I don't think you had any TV-MA shows before that (the TV rating system had just started about six months earlier).
The Nicktoons were popular as well, I remember them being praised for being original and telling the story from the kids' POV. Both "Doug" and "Rugrats" were actually very innovative for their time. IMO Disney really ruined the feel of "Doug" when they brought it back in the mid-90s.
OK, I know it says 25-32 years, but I feel like saying something too. I'm only 20, and may not be the best contributor for this but I'm just stating what I remember about the 1990s. I was born in spring 1989 and I just found out my generation is the 2000s, not the 90s. It's the same for everybody--my parents were born in 1959 and my aunts/uncles were born in the early-mid 60s but they're the 1970s generation. I guess being a child of the 60s is a lot different than growing up in the 60s. (and it's the same for us 90s children too)
Lingo . . . hmmm . . . I remember a lot of girls (mostly on TV) talked like valley girls, "like, totally!" "no way!" "whatever!" I don't really remember "talk to the hand" or " . . . not" but I sort of remember "psyche!" I think a lot of people also said "lame-o" and "later!" For insulting, I guess people insulted each other by calling people "doofuses," "dweebs," and "dorks."
Entertainment is something I remember. I think a lot of kids shows had so much more imagination and were about normal people. There's a few shows today that are about "normal" people, but I'm talking cartoons. I think most of the good kids cartoons were in the 80s, like The Snorks, Muppet Babies, Care Bears, the Little Koala, David the Gnome, and Smurfs. I mostly watched reruns of that stuff in the 90s when I was little when they re-ran it on the Disney Channel and Nick Jr. And there were a lot better live-action/puppet shows as well, such as "Under the Umbrella Tree," "Professor Iris," "Fraggle Rock," (watched in reruns) "Zoobilee Zoo" (I think I watched this in reruns) "Rory's Place" (don't remember too much about it but I swear to God this was a show) and "Sharon, Lois and Brahm's Elephant show." (watched in reruns). And of course there was the educational stuff shown on PBS like "Sesame Street," "Barney & Friends," (good when it first started, God only knows what it's like now. From what I've heard it's changed a lot) "Lamb Chop's Play Along," "Mister Rogers," "Mister Wizard's World" (reran on Nickelodeon early in the morning) and "Reading Rainbow." I am so glad I watched those instead of the inane drivel that's on now. Yeha in this decade there were a few good kids cartoons/educational TV but a majority of it sounds so silly. Nickelodeon also was about being a KID and not acting all grown up. There were so many game shows and prizes and kids getting slimed. My aunt worked at Nickelodeon studios in the 1990s and we got to see the sets of a lot of those shows. Not actually going on them but looking through a window high above. Back to kids being kids. Kids actually had toys to entertain themselves, not Ipods. And they didn't sit on their behinds for hours and hours texting, or playing mindless violent video games on Xbox for hours and hours. And kids were actually babysat by PEOPLE and not the TV. I see some little kids sitting in strollers and they have a portable DVD player in there. And long car rides didn't involve watching movies, they involved listening to the radio, having conversations, and playing car games/singing songs.
For music, I guess we liked the Backstreet Boys, Hansen, Spice Girls, Matchbox 20, Sugar Ray (but this was all mid-late 90s). My cousins who was born in the late 70s/early 80s liked New Kids on the Block, Paula Abdul, and Michael Jackson.
Sitcoms--I remember watching TGIF every Friday night, mainly for Family Matters or "Urkel Matters" as that was basically it's name by the 8th season. My sister liked Sabrina, Boy meets World, and Step by Step. I was too young to watch Full House as it was only on Friday nights in the first 3 seasons (started in 1987 and was on Friday nights until 1990 when I was 1 year old) and it got cancelled when I was 6. I remember watching The Nanny, Friends, and Home Improvement as well.
Other--We used to listen to cassette tapes and my mom's records and watching video tapes and putting the tape into the rewinder. Who could forget Sing Along Song videotapes? We loved those. I remember renting movies from the store and having to bring them back to the store and drop them in the slot. I'll never forget the Beanie Baby Boom and how the Hallmark stores were almost always sold out.
Not my best but this may be useful. Like I said I know I'm 5 years too young but I have a pretty good memory. Plus I was almost done typing this when I realized it said 25-32 years, so I put it in the beginning.
My girl My girl 2 The Beverly Hillbillies The Addams Family Addams family values Home alone Home Alone 2 Jurrasic Park Problem child Problem child 2 Forrest Gump Andre Father of the bride Father of the bride 2 Beethoven Beethoven's 2nd Rent a kid The Flintstones The Aristocats The jungle book ( disney version ) Fantasia Robin Hood ( disney version ) Peter Pan ( disney version ) Lady and the tramp Cinderella ( disney version ) Alice in Wonderland ( disney version ) Dumbo Pinnochio Uncle Buck Cool Runnings Three Amigos Little shop of horrors ( 1986 version ) The babysitters club Three men and a baby Three men and a little lady
Cartoons:
Doug Hey Arnold Rugrats Real monsters Lambchop's playalong Galaxy high ( re-runs ) Kissyfur ( re-runs, i also liked them when they were released in the 80's ) Fraggle rock ( re-runs ) Rude dog and the dweebs ( re-runs ) Bucky O'Hare Fantastic Max Potsworth and co ( it's also known as The midnight patrol ) Care bears Care bears movie Care bears movie 2:A new generation
Tv shows ( with real actors )
Kevin and Co Kevin and cousins Dizzy Heights Hotel Chucklevision Julia Jekyll and Harriet Hyde The worst witch Kenan and Kel
Music :
Backstreet boys Take that Spice girls Michael Jackson Madonna East 17 Space Pulp Catatonia The Corrs Robbie Williams Steps Scatman John Whigfield Aqua East 17
I may edit this as i know there was alot more stuff i liked, i just can't think what they were at the moment lol.
...no. You are a 90s kid. I was born in 1989 as well. That is my childhood. I remember ALL of the stuff that basically went on. I'm 21 right now, and all i can say is i really miss childhood. All you afraid of the dark was my favorite TV show. I read goosebumps 24/7. Snick,Nick jr. with face...gullah gullah island...big bear in the blue house...pb and j otter....stick stickly was awesome! weinerville...all that...me and my sisters were obsessed with rugrats and 101 dalmatians. TGIF ..one saturday morning...power rangers 24/7 ..beetle borgs....casper was BIG...ummm the adventures of shelby woo..ghostwriters...babysitters club on disney. Super soakers...skip it...doll houses were big..and countless barbie doll playing...yo yos...omg...that game simon....dont know when it came out..but played it alot. Always being outside def...i remember when internet got big...use to play on ms dos for some things in school...yup...i remember using ibm and emachines..and apple computers but not the same apple as now... Always watching Mary kate and ashley movies... beanie babies..my sister use to collect them alot. Boy meets world was cool. Home alone was my fav movie next to the hand that rocks the cradle.
I def agree with post above on cassette tapes...i remember recording songs on tapes.....i remember way before dvd players came out...we had vcrs and they were a hassel at times...still own one..but it doesnt work...
Video games nonstop...king of fighters, spyro, rugrats game, a bugs life, rayman, tombraider, frogger, mortal kombat, streetfighters, rival schools...a lot of figthing games lol. but spyro was the *beep* at my house...and yeh fianl fantasy. Pokemon was cool! gameboy color....still own one. still own the games. we had sega...ps1...!! tamagotchies(sp)..and giga pets...were cool too. I remember when matilda and harriet the spy came out as well. When i was younger we watched spot... not the creepy stuff kids watch today..lol. I remember reading harry potter too..the first book as a kid. i was 8. Everyone rode bikes....had skateboards..and went to the park. freezetag...lava man, and hide and go seek for ages outside...
So all that entertainment wise.
Music: Britney Spears, backstreet boys, insync....m2m...all that pop stuff. When rap and rnb was actually good.... grunge....and always listening to creed. I cant say too much for music because i listened to alot of 80s music and 70s as well because of what my parents listened to....so yeh but def that earlier pop stuff..
I remember the spice girl dolls they came out with....and the ridiculous hype. So many things about my childhood was great! wouldnt trade it for the world. I lived all through the 90s :) and im proud. after 2,000 hit..things went down hill really. btw child hood is infancy-through yr 8. :) preadolescent is 10! fyi for the ones saying that 1989 is not a 90s kid....>__> Most ppl remember things after age 3 ;) So i am an 80s baby, and a 90s kid. Anywho. I miss this time period alot =/
Sayings When I was in grade school the kids in my class used the term The bomb. Like You're the bomb." Which meant you were cool. Man was pretty popular term too. Cartoons I liked Real Ghostbusters, The Simpsons, Doug, Rugrats, Gargoyles, X-Men, and Spider-Man. TV Shows I liked Home Improvement, Saved by the Bell, Family Matters, and Boy meets world. I used to like Full House and now I hate it. I also liked two shows that didn't last very long. They were called Soul Man (which starred Dan Akroyd) and Teen Angel. Soul Man actually had some appearances by Tim Allen. Both were kind of focussed on God so that's probably why they didn't do so well. It's really late so that is all I have to say.
Kelloway: Doyle, get in the car. Doyle: But I ordered Onion Rings. Kelloway: Doyle!
Yeah, for lingo, we also carried over the "duh" and "no duh!". Don't forget the overuse of "EXTREME" during the mid-90s. People used that as much as people use the term "reboots" now. I don't know if it was common, but words me and my friends would use would "shyeah"(basically "yeah"), "Way!"(in response to "No way!?"), "dorky", "psyche", "wicked", "phat", "homey"("How you hangin' homey?", you can also substitue "homes"). "Blazing" was a term used for getting high, and "bud" was slang for weed. Don't forget terms like "da bomb"("That song is da bomb!"), "it's all good"("Don't worry, it's all good!" and "all that"("She thinks she's all that?").
For music, Grunge took over as 80s Metal died out. Dance based pop ruled the early 90s, giving way to heavier techno and house sounds. Rap became heavy with gangsta themes. Most 80s artists that didn't fade away became more adult contemporary. Kenny G nearly set the adult contemporary standard. During the end of the 90s, however, pop went ultra bubblegum with boy bands(Backstreet Boys, NSYNC, 98 Degrees) and girl bands(Spice Girls, BeWitched)
For television, the family sitcom was a dying breed, being replaced by sitcoms that revolved around adult groups of friends(Wings, Seinfeld, Friends). Though the strongest family sitcoms could be found on TGIF(Family Matters, Full House, Step By Step), and Fox's Married with Children. As a cartoon family sitcom, The Simpsons ruled the 90s, in it's entirety. There was also more sketch comedy shows, some that did great(In Living Color, All That), while others didn't(The Edge).
In fashion, during the early 90s, dayglow clothing from the 80s evolved to a strange fashion sense with faux paint splatter. Kids used to always wear their long sleeve shirts/sweaters tied around their waists, and fanny packs were big. Soon, with Grudge becoming super popular, flannel plaid clothing became a norm, as did baggy jeans(some so baggie, they would ride ultra low). 70s style made a brief return, with bell bottom pants and various 70s inspired blouses. Near the end of the 90, the metrosexual look become pretty big(the start contrast between the grunge look).
Beavis and Butthead was huge as well. Everyone used to go around with their shirts on their heads saying "I am cornholio!". We used to steal insults from that show like Dillhole.
To the above poster, kids werent calling each other dweebs and doofuses back then. That was only on tv since they had to be family friendly. I remember my friends first day of jr high in about 96. He said he was walking through the PE locker room to his locker and some 8th grader was dressing. My friend just glanced at him and the dude was like "What the f$%& you lookin at, you gay a$$ piece of sh!t?". The rest of the year the guy said that to him lol. Far cry from "dork" and "dweeb".
I was born in 1986 and I remember people saying "Sike!" instead of saying just kidding. ("My mom found out that we snuck out last night and is calling your mom...Sike!")
Also I think this might be a NY thing but everyone would say "Mint" in place of cool.
A lot of people would quote Wayne's World with "Party time! Excellent!" and "Sha-wing!".
Jim Carrey and Adam Sandler were also hugely popular and often quoted.
That's about all I can think of right now, I might edit this if anything else comes to mind.