Deleted Scenes?/Questions

I just watched this movie today on dvd for the first time in maybe 20 years or more. The last time I remember watching it was on channel 11 on tv so I remember scenes that weren't on the dvd so I guess they were deleted scenes that the station was showing? Like I remember the therapist crossing his heart with his cards or something because Andy doesn't want him telling him a secret or something and then I think Andy asks him if he has any yellows or something and the therapist accuses him of cheating? Tben the guy that Chucky kills with the bag over his head(cant think of his name the one with the glasses) he calls only his girlfriend in the car on the dvd but not his wife. When I watched it on the tv he called both his wife and his girlfriend. I also remember him picking up Chucky in the factory and making a face. I remember Joanne and Phil kissing and Phil telling Joanne whatever she wants in Gracesn office which again is not on the dvd. Also Chucky writes *beep* you on Andys paper. Now Chucky being Chucky of course he doesn't need a reason to do it but is there a deleted scene as to why he does it? I thought they showed a scene as to why he does it but its not on the dvd?

Also what I don't get it Chucky pretends to be Andys "Uncle Charles" to get info out Grace to find out where Andy is living. Wouldn't Grace have info on Andys relatives? I cant believe she would fall for that.

Edit: Just saw the deleted scenes on youtube. I knew I wasn't going crazy.

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