Mr Swainey


I really loved how they wrote and developed Mr Swainey’s character. His extreme chirpiness and politeness could often be funny as it was often so overbearing and got on Victor’s nerve. But he wasn't a Boy Scout stereotype and despite his kind, caring and compassionate nature, there was actually hints that he wasn't as cheerful or happy as he often behaved, and in fact, he may have even been miserable and depressed, maybe even so much as Victor. And despite his genuine good intentions, nothing ever good actually happens to him.

In the episode The Exterminating Angel when he meets Tania the nurse and is infatuated with her, he hesitates to ask her out as he believes she’s “way out of his league” and doesn't think he is good enough for her. Margaret tells him she was dying for him to ask her out to which he very solemnly says “I’d love to believe that Mrs Meldrew but life’s never that wonderful is it?” and then he quickly decides to leave to avoid pursuing the discussion. I found it fascinating that Mr Swainey would say something as unequivocal as “Life’s never that wonderful”. Nonetheless he does ask her out and when he tells Margaret later she still encourages him. But then she finds out that Tania is actually going out with Lewis Atterbury and so has to tell Nick the unfortunate news. When she does tell him, Nick is clearly disappointed but noticeably not surprised. And so ruefully Margaret has to concede that’s he was right and that “life’s never that wonderful”.

What was probably most sad for Nick here was that unlike in films or a lot of other sitcoms for that matter, another nurse would come in take over from Tania and Nick would again be infatuated with her only this time she would agree and then become his girlfriend. But here Nick is given a sad (and arguably, more realistic) ending.It’s also made even more sad by the fact that when he receives his sad news he goes off to do something selfless for charity.

Nick’s depression is again brought to the surface in “The Dawn of man” after Margaret gives him the copy of a video tape featuring a famous American reporter Skip Hoberman who looks just like him. This only exacerbates Nick’s depression. This leads to one of my favourite scenes throughout the entire show’s series and it’s not even a comical one.

When Nick and Margaret are in his car and she confronts him and about his sad behaviour, he confesses to her that he feels worthless, for only doing charity work and feels embarrassed for living with his mother, Margaret tries to cheer him up by telling him what a kind and gentle man he is and that she likes him. But it still isn’t enough and eventually Nick mentions that he’s lonely. Margaret herself looks saddened by this admission, but importantly, she doesn't say anything and the scene is interrupted by Victor being assaulted, so she and Nick have to rescue him.

Margaret doesn't say anything to him because there’s nothing to say. There is nothing she can do. Nick is upset and depressed by the circumstances with his life and although Margaret is one of his closest friends, there is nothing she can do. I love this because like the ending for Nick in The Exterminating Angel it was painfully realistic and further illustrated how even kind, caring people like Nick can become saddened and depressed, not just grumpy, irascible people like Victor.

So in the end, nothing good ever happened to Nick. He had bad luck with women and his mother died and it appears he was going to die alone, something which he strongly predicted. The only comfort he has is knowing that a famous, daring reporter who looked like him died whilst on his exciting career so maybe it's better not so great embarking on a more exciting, adventurous career. But I'm sure this would be scarce comfort to him, and certainly not satisfying in the long run.

Victor, for all his misfortunes, did at least have Margaret, who loved him and stood by him. As evidenced in the episode “Endgame” when Victor thinks Margaret is going to die, you could tell from the look on his face that there is nothing worse that could ever have happened to him, all his previous bad luck and misfortune meant nothing compared to losing Margaret. Luckily for Victor, she pulled through. Despite Victor’s horrible death, he at least got to go before losing Margaret which I do think Victor may have preferred.

Whereas at the end, Nick had No one. I think in a way, you could even argue he had more bad luck than Victor.

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I think there's a certain sadness to all the characters. I mean look at Mrs Warboys, when did anything good ever happen to her? Margaret is just as miserable as victor, sometimes more so. Where Victor normally means well Margaret has it in her to be a bit spiteful. Patrick is a younger Victor and Pippa was the most 'normal' character in it but even she had an affair so can't have been totally happy in her marriage lol

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Very true I always thought though it was especially sad for Nick since he was arguably the most well intentioned and kindest of the supporting characters.

Margaret did have her share of bad luck (usually the fault of Victor) but she did have Victor with her and spent most of her life with him in a relatively happy marriage and he was there to comfort her atleast until the last episode. And like you say, she could be a bit spiteful.

You made a good point about Mrs Warboys though I suppose you could maybe say that because of the large amount of time she spent visiting the Meldrews she may have even deep down preferred Margaret (and Victor's company) to that of her husband Chris, especially since she seemed to have gotten well over her marriage ending after series 4. So she remained good friends with the Meldrews and she was never really particularly sad with the exception of the last episode in series 4 when she discovers about Chris's affair. And she did atleast get some romance from Alfonso in One Foot in the Algarve. Even though it didn't turn quite as well as maybe it should have, it did end relatively amicably.

Patrick was indeed a younger version of Victor and because at times he was so stubborn and petulant, like Victor you couldn't help but find his bad luck amusing. As for the affair, It did seem Patrick forgave her and there was no indication that she had any desire to cheat on him again so you could assume they're marriage lasted and relatively happily even though I'm sure both would feel awkward about the affair.

And Patrick did finally manage to escape Victor by living in a new house he had manage to finally get his own back with the last laugh with the cop porn video mishap.

But Mr Swainey had no one, his last piece of dialogue throughout the show's whole series was an admission of depression and anxiety about his life which it seemed never got better.

Crop Rotation in the 14th century was considerably more widespread after John.

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The way I see it is that now Margaret doesn't have Victor and Mr. Swainey lost his Mum, I think they will develop a nice mother/son relationship.

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I think it's rather sad that we never saw Patrick and Pippa's reaction to Victor's death. Particularly Patrick's. It would be nice to think he'd at least feel a twinge of sadness about the demise of his old adversary.

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Just watching this show again on DVD and the more I see of Mr. Swainey the more I think he's not as innocent as he seems. It's just a flicker of a look here or a small smirk there as he says and does things that torture Victor but I get the feeling there's an undercurrent of perversity to him - he knows what he's doing but pulls it off as an innocent.

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