Problem is that for half the people who wear poppies, it isn't about respect for the dead - it's about worrying that others will critise you if you *don't* wear one. Either that or smugness.
It actually reminds me of an episode from many many years ago, when Ian Hislop - in his own words, annoyed at being told he had to wear an AIDS ribbon "as though it were compulsory" - instead elected to wear a large white L-shaped on his lapel, in honour of leukaemia sufferers.
The wearing of ribbons, badges and poppies has, as far as I can see, ceased to mean anything these days, except to provide proof to others that one has "done one's bit". If people wear them because they feel obliged to do so, what's the point of having them? It doesn't mean that you're wearing it because it means anything to you, or because you've thought deeply on he subject and agree with what it represents, or that you even know the first damn thing about it. It just means you're embarrassed to be seen without it because people will think you're a cheapskate.
I am grateful to those who have died in defence of my home, and if I can't be arsed to pin the poppy on my coat after I've donated, it doesn't mean I'm any less grateful - and having someone badger me to wear it doesn't make me any MORE so.
Now cure me of my madness or I won't put my shoes on, ever.
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