A great theme behind this movie
Yesterday I watched "Children of a Lesser God" on Lifetime. While I thought this movie was wonderfully executed, I couldn't help but feel a bit disappointed that Sarah never did learn to speak James' language (the language of the "hearing world").
But now, I think I have a deeper understanding of Sarah's choice not to speak. Her decision is actually one that could go beyond the world of deaf people. Basically, I feel that the moral lesson of this movie is that even though our circumstances can prevent us from doing many of the "normal" things in life, it doesn't mean that we can't still enjoy living. Instead, we must become innovators and find ways to make life "work" for us.
As we saw in the movie, Sarah was very bitter about the hearing world's treatment of deaf people who do not speak. But she let that anger take over her life, and soon, she began using her silence as a means to defend herself against being hurt by the world again.
Silence also enabled Sarah to feel in control of the relationships in her life. Though she did not control James as a person, she did control his ability to know her for who she really is. Up until the end, Sarah allowed people to only see her as a deaf woman who didn't care about being a part of their hearing world. But James saw through that shield that Sarah was so much more.
Even though I had hoped that Sarah learned to speak, I understand why she did not. She has accepted that her voice isn't the best way to express herself in the world; but instead of shrinking back into silence, she becomes, in essence, an innovator and finds a new way to express who she really is: love. And from that loves comes all the other things: honesty, compassion, and confidence.
For those who are deaf, I think this movie shows people that neither James nor Sarah's original approach to the hearing world is perfect. While deaf people should not feel ashamed of their differences from the hearing world, they must find some way to survive in it. Whether they do so through learning to speak or (as in Sarah's case) learning to love, it is perfectly fine.