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The REAL Grady and Virgilia


Virgilia and Grady, like everyone else, were fictional characters. But I found this story a while back about a similar couple:

"A White Heiress Elopes with a Negro." Valley Spirit, January 19, 1859;
(Reprinted from the Detroit Free Press)

The Detroit Free Press of Thursday tells of a singular elopement in that vicinity on Saturday: A young girl named Sarah Judson, whose father lives on a fine property a mile or two from Pontiac, eloped on Saturday and came to Detroit. The partner of her flight was a black man, who has been in the employment of her father for some time in the capacity of farm hand. the first intimation that the father had of the intention of the parties was conveyed by the fact of their flight. They immediately crossed over to Windsor, upon reaching the city, fully sensible that they could not accomplish their unnatural designs on this side, as no official or clergyman could have been found who would have so far transgressed the bounds of decency as to unite the couple, the appearance of the girl being such as would forbid the union in the mind of any sensible man, to say nothing of the law in the case. Some individual was found in Canada who performed the ceremony, however, and the two were made one. They are now in Windsor, enjoying the sweets of the honeymoon.

The brother of the girl came on the next day arriving here on Sunday, and ascertaining there whereabouts, went to her and implored her to return. She was contented, however--loved her ebony half--was happy in his arms, and couldn't think of going back. The emotions of a brother at such a sight can better be imagined than described. Some men would have blotted out their disgrace with a single blow, but he had been taught that it was no sin against God or man that his young sister should repose in the embrace of a negro, and at the same time calmly look [word missing] to the face and say that she was contented. He went home as he had come, alone.

The girl is about eighteen years old.--The family are said to have occupied a position in society which was first class, and the blow is, consequently a terrible one. The father is rich, and the girl and heiress, which makes it very nice for the African of her choice. The matter has caused an intense excitement in the neighborhood where the parties are well known, the girl having been born and brought up where her parents reside. It is difficult to imagine any train of circumstances by which a young and intelligent girl could be brought to form a connexion so repugnant to all the senses; yet the fact exists. A more complete retribution for the crime of fanaticism we never heard of. The least we can wish is, that the father, undoubtedly well cured of his belief by this time, may be able to save his young daughter from the terrible future that now opens to her.

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I read that there were interracial relationships before the Civil War.

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There definitely were interracial relationships and interracial sex (and I mean Black man/White woman) before the Civil War but because most sexual history never gets documented (thank goodness) we will never know what really happened.

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I can't believe that I didn't realize it until just a moment ago, but I have written two novels (though none of them has yet been released), where you can say that the protagonist is very much like Virgilia from "North & South". Maybe the most important similarity between them is that they both have sex with a slave before he's a free man, despite how it's forbidden and dangerous. But the book also implies that Virgilia was a feminist (or at least that that she was unhappy with being a woman in an era, where men still had almost all the power), and also that she was intelligent (she had gone to a college for women, even if she was expelled from there after two semesters for "not following the rules"). And that is also true for my protagonist. It is only sad that John Jakes spent so much time turning poor Virgilia into a crazy fanatic, that we don't get to see much of those other sides of her personality in the TV series.

I guess that you can say that I also created a "Grady", even if the similarities there are much fewer. For example, my character is a convinced pacifist, which is very much unlike the militant Grady. But if Grady had taught himself to read (!), he must have been very intelligent, even if he never had gotten any education since he was a slave. So that would be one similarity, even though my character got education despite being a slave. But I also have to point out that my couple got a very good life together (I guess I don't like downers, so there will mostly be happy endings in my novels), which Virgilia and Grady didn't. But they still had to go through prejudices, inprisonment and a civil war.

Intelligence and purity.

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That's pretty cool that you've written novels, I like to write in my spare time and I wouldn't mind having something published, of course. :) Are you going to get your books published? I'm curious to what all goes into that.

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I think I have to give it a try some day, but I want to go through the first part again before I can send it away to a publisher.

Intelligence and purity.

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Well good luck! You should definitely try at least, you just never know, it could be something that would really be enjoyable for people.

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Since there were mulattos that was fairly obvious!

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