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why did Jack take the woobie?


I never got why Jack took the kid's woobie. Of course I'm not a parent yet but I figured kids will grow out of security blankets eventually. Are you supposed to force it like that?

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Jack didn't exactly take it by force. The kid voluntarily handed it over after much prodding by his dad.

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why did he prod?

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Maybe the point Jack was making was: if he was mature enough to give up his old, tattered shirt (remember when he threw it in the fire?), Kenny could show maturity by giving up his woobie. I do see your point that Jack may have bene pushing Kenny a little too hard in that direction.

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I was wondering that myself. It seems to me parents get a little to overanxious worrying that their kid is hanging on too long to a security blanket or other such item. They think the kid's going to end up dragging the security item around forever, or maybe grow into other more serious addictions, such as Jack was trying to illustrate to Kenny about how he would wind up strung out on bedspreads :) I even once heard a parent claim that if you didn't push your kids into potty training early on, the kid would never learn to grow out of diapers and would wet their pants their whole life. WTF is that??? I find both notions ridiculous. My "security" thing was thumbsucking when I was a kid and I grew out of it. Better yet, I have no unhealthy addictions as an adult.

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i had a blanket & used to suck my thumb too. i never did these things in public, only at home. it was harder for me to stop sucking my thumb. my teeth became a nightmare & had to endure years at the orthodontist. i had that condition called alveolar prognathism(sp).

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There are two reasons I can see. One psychological and the other scholastic.

Psychologically speaking by taking the woobie he is forcing his son to find a new way to self-soothe (the same way parents do when they do not respond to their crying baby when they know their needs have been met all ready and their crying for attention); that is to find comfort internally instead of being wholly dependent on the comfort the blanket gave him. It also allows the child to move into verbalizing issues and needs they would not previously because they had their 'security blanket' item.

Scholastically the son is probably going into school soon (we pretty much see the movie run the gambit of several months if not a year) and most elementary schools will not allow children who are attached to either blankets, bottles, or pacifiers to attend. This is because they need to know the child can healthily socialize with the other students and talk to the teachers instead of being silent in a corner because they can be reliant on their blankets for comfort when anxious or scared about joining in activities or making friends.


Now strictly speaking, from a psychological standpoint, you don't have to necessarily 'force' a child to give up a security blanket-esque item. As long as you provide healthy outlets and options to them they should readily grow out of it. Especially if its exposing them to other children who have all ready outgrown that part of their childhood. This is a matter of opinion of course.

Speaking from a academic orientated standpoint there is a need to force it before the school year starts so they can adjust properly to being without. Thus being able to full intake the school environment.

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Children should never be allowed to start that sort of crap.

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Agreed. Not ever parent wants to raise a wussy.

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These days, Jack would be sued by PEUW (People for the Ethical Use of Woobies).

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I think he did it because he felt the kid was getting too old for a woobie. I think most people do outgrow woobies but not all. I know a man who is 40 and still has his woobie and still sleeps with it. I don't necesarily think there is anything wrong with that, it's not hurting him or anyone else but it is not the norm.

I actually gave my woobies up to my mom of my own volition when I started kindergarten. lol I actually carried them to her and asked her to hide them away from me because I felt I was too old to have them. I was a weirdo though.

I don't know if it should be forced or not. I guess that's all a matter of opinion.


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Some of the comment on this thread are nuts! But I came here to say that his speech is one of my favorites. I don't think he should have taken the woobie, though I understand it links to his shirt. But, yeah, the whole strung out on bedsheets thing is v. funny. :)

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Didn't you listen? Jack laid it all out there for Kenny. He got him off the woobie because he has seen it before. First comes the woobie, then he may try to score a nice comforter or quilt. And the next thing you know.....you're strung out on bed spreads.

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That was a funny line but there is nothing wrong with any of those things, either.









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