[ potentially ] valuable life lesson by ' sybil banning ' / joan pringle
per recollection, the sybil banning character counseled a student struggling with the inequities of prejudice as follows:
' in life, there are four groups of people :
those who like for the right reasons,
those who like you for the wrong reasons,
those who dislike you for the right reasons, and
those who dislike you for the wrong reasons.
of these four, there are only two groups to be concerned about :
those who like you for the right reasons &
those who dislike you for the right reasons '