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Can anyone explain to me the significance of the title?


I believe the title refers to Diane Keaton's character's search for the right man that will make her happy and help her escape from her troubling childhood. Any ideas?

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As far as I know, in the novel (not "Closing Time" which is excellent and is based on the true case, but the Judith Rossner novel) it's the name of one of the bars she drinks in. I have it at home but haven't read it yet. I'll check it out. Unless anybody else knows??

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the reference in the title to mr. goodbar, refers, i believe, to the candy bar put out by hershey named "mr. goodbar." in the film, theresa sometimes steals these candy bars instead of paying for them, because, she says, wheres the fun it that? (meaning paying for them). it seems to me that this is the hook to the story of her life: a life of lies and religious repression. she doesn't want to be a "good" catholic schoolgirl, she's trying to break away, trying new things to figure out who she is during a time that was for many folks a confusing time, especially sexually (the scenes of homosexuality keep hammering away at that aspect, sometimes literally). the small act of looking for mr. goodbar, so she can steal it and be naughty (hahaha to her dreadful father, and by inference, her religiously repressive upbringing along with the terrible illness she suffered from in childhood)was an act of rebellion. unfortunately for theresa, she got caught.
that's my theory anyway. any help?

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Your theory sounds good, though I read the book and don't remember any reference to Theresa stealing Mr. Goodbars, is that part of your theory, as well. But what you mentioned overall was definitely covered very well in the theme of the movie.

I here LFMG now it is available at FYE stores, I think in VHS - so I am looking forward to getting a fresh copy of this very good movie.

It's funny when I first saw it I didn't like it much, as I thought it was a bit choppy on the plot.

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"It's funny when I first saw it I didn't like it much, as I thought it was a bit choppy on the plot."

Me, too. But it's like The Sixth Sense. You get to the end, and then everything makes sense, and seems different than when you just watched it.

Well worth the 2-3 hours. Great, scary movie. I'm going to show it to my daughter when she's older, so she can see the desperation and bad choices, and the ups and downs and chaos of bars.

BTW - I always thought the title meant the she was looking for Mr. Right, no, Mr. Right Now, no, Mr. Goodbar. Like she would take home the best guy in the bar that night...

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SILLYWILLOUT: I F'n love it when someone hits it so on the head like that!

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She steals candy bars in the film? Are you sure that's not in the book? What scene in the movie is it? Who does she say that too?

I just watched this film, i thought was a good '70s style movie, and was trying to figure out what the title meant. I thought i remember reading somewhere that Mr. Goodbar was the name of a bar Diane Keaton's character frequented.

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She steals candy bars in the film. When she finally accepted a kind of date with James, both enter her room with groceries bags. James tells her when he is unpacking the goods "I do not remember have payed for this candy bars". "I stole them", she says...or something like that. But the scene is that one.

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There's one scene in the movie where she comes back to apartment after shopping with James. She pulls out a Hershey's chocolate bar, not a Mr. Goodbar, and James says that I don't remember you buying that, and Teresa says that you're right; I didn't. I remember this because it made me hungry for a plain Hershey's chocolate bar, and I had to go out and BUY one.

I've read Judith Rossner's novel several, several times, but several years ago, and I don't remember Mr. Goodbar referenced in there.

I think the most important aspect of the title is that she is looking for a man with a nice schlong.

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Reviews from readers of the novel:

The "Mr. Goodbar" of the title is simply the name of one of Terry's haunts. Her double life is two such extreme opposites, that on the rare occasions when one element appears in another, it often leads to disaster.

"Looking for Mr. Goodbar" (the title not a character but a pick-up bar) gives us a Catholic teacher of deaf children who, after dark, takes on a truly dark character and sets out on the bar scene looking for sex and, maybe if she's lucky, love.



nobody believed me! :O)

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Mr. Goodbar was a chocolate bar that was cheaper and not quite as good as others like Hershey's and Nestles. The Mr. Goodbar that Terry was looking for was something cheaper and less substantial, but satisfying for the moment.

Buzz

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That was an excellent analogy

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The book had a huge impact on me. I read it maybe 10-12 years ago. I sincerely believe every woman should read it and come to her own conclusions and lessons. I think a lot of us go through similar, though less intense, situations of chosing the wrong men over and over again. The novel is brilliant and heartbreaking and so is the movie!!

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I actually just finished this book yesterday (haven't seen the movie yet) and in the book, Mr. Goodbar is simply the name of the bar where she meets her fatal one night stand partner. "Mr. Goodbar" is only mentioned in the last 20 pages of the book or so, there are no references to her stealing the candy bars or to her looking for a Mr. Goodbar (or, a.k.a "Mr. Right"). It does say, however, that the bar has one wall that is covered in the candy bar wrappers. Hope I explained that ok, it's my first time posting!

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it means that like the search for peanuts in a chocolate bar, the search for a good man can be sweet but has highs and lows (like from sugar) and may cause weight gain (like from pregnancy)...and if you find a good man, don't bite his peanuts

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that it absolutely hilarious!

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Thanks... I'll take the word of someone who has read the book recently over all these other idiots.

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The Goodbar is based on the Goodbar Killer which the film is based on.

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I think that may be the deeper meaning to it, but on the surface it is the name of the bar that Teresa's character goes to to pick up guys.

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I agree with what MATTHEW78 said. Up above.

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Glad to see other people have read Closing Time as I found a copy at the local library. I found the "original" copy of the movie on Youtube and have been watching it in pieces. I remember someone bringing in a bucket of Hershey minis a while back and I made a show of trying to find a certain type. My co-worker asked what I was doing, so I jokingly replied "I'm looking for Mr. Goodbar."

She didn't get it.

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Almost ... it has nothing to do with a lasting relationship. Mr. Goodbar = Mr. Great Lay.

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