actually you are quite correct as if you are abit blasé about stuff others sense it and quickly try to cast you out or take your place or just get rid of you as competition. have had it done to me several times as have been very blasé in several situations when I dropped my guard/was just laid back about stuff and others sensed it or something and then tried to take advantage or tried to destroy me with spreading lies/rumours etc and as a result became abit of a social outcast and then had to start over in another place and then if you don't take note of what happened before the same thing can happen and then you go someplace else - all that stuff (guess I should've done one of those psychology degrees, it might've helped lol)
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