Anne Boleyn - A Role Model?


Now, let's get this straight. I am fascinated by Anne Boleyn. I think she was completely innocent of the crimes Henry VIII accused her of. I do not think she deserved to die. But I find it, frankly, completely incomprehensible when people cite her as a role model. A role model is someone whose life one tries to emulate. I see little, if anything, in Anne Boleyn's life that should be replicated. Yes, she had some admirable qualities. She was by all reports very intelligent and witty. She took control of her own destiny and overcame insane odds to become Queen of England. The way she managed to manipulate Henry VIII and hold his interest all those years is impressive. She was mother of Elizabeth I, even if she only raised her for three years, and she appears to have been a good mother. And the fact that an entire Reformation took place just for her is terrifying and incredible at the same time (reminds me of Helen of Troy, in fact).
But let's look closer. Anne got her power through seducing a married man. Yes, Henry came after her first, but there's no denying she encouraged it after a while. She seduced him away from a good, virtuous woman, Katherine of Aragon, and because of her Henry sent Katherine away to a drafty old castle where she was forbidden to see or communicate with her daughter Mary, until she eventually caught sick and died. Anne's rise to power was steeped in the blood of innocents, not only Katherine's but also those of those who refused to take the Oath, good and moral men like Thomas More and Bishop Fisher who did nothing wrong except refuse to lower their moral standards. Yes, it may have been Henry's idea and not Anne's but she was the cause of it. Anne may have objected to Henry's treatment of Katherine and the murders (I can use no other word) of those who refused to take the oath, but she doesn't appear to have spoken up. True, it was dangerous to disagree with Henry VIII, but Anne was a woman who spoke her mind, she could have extended it far enough to rebuke Henry about his cruelty. And for all we know, it might have been her idea. After Henry married Anne, the Princess Mary was forbidden to see or communicate with her mother (contrary to what they showed on The Tudors, the two never saw each other again) and Mary was suddenly declared a bastard. Instead of showing any sympathy Anne purposely humiliated Mary by forcing her to be a servant to the baby sister who was now Princess of Wales, a title which was Mary's by right as Henry's older daughter. While Mary had always been a staunch Catholic, I believe it may have been these events which instilled such a fanatic hatred of Protestantism in her, as she connected the Reformation with Anne and the related events such as being forced away from her mother and being unfairly declared a bastard. This fanatic hatred might have in turn led to the Protestant persecutions during her reign which earned her the name Bloody Mary. Furthermore, Anne and Henry VIII's "love story" is not a true love story at all, certainly nothing to be emulated. She pursued him, at least initially and possibly till the end, for power only. He was little more than a twisted psychopath who killed Anne on trumped-up charges simply because she didn't give him a male heir. There is nothing of love in that, there is nothing even close to love. Those who would claim love is close to hate have a twisted and unhealthy view on love. True love stories do not end with the husband beheading his wife for no good reason at all. Sorry. They don't.
In short, I see little here that is role model material. Any thoughts?

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Intelligence, courage, ambition - all well and good, but they are nothing without morality. Hitler was brilliant, courageous, and insanely ambitious. Hitler is not a role model (one would hope). This is obviously an extreme example, but I think that's often necessary to make a point. "Spirit" is harder to define and for some reason always seems to be applied to women (seriously, have you ever heard a man described as "spirited"?)I guess you could say it is a mix of optimism and courage - is that close? Again, valuable, but empty without morality.
Not that Anne was necessarily immoral. It's just that if you look at her as a role model, it's hard to see the morality in her LIFE (not her herself, as it's possible she was a very moral person). The message seems to be that you should get what you want, no matter how many people have to be hurt or killed for you to get it, even if it means marrying a veritable psychopath.
If I can't blame Anne for things she caused, why in fact are we giving her any credit? She was either Henry's dishrag who did nothing at all - in which case, sure, we can't blame her, but I don't think a dishrag is a role model - or else she was an active player in the story. We can't give her credit for overcoming the odds to become Queen if we then argue that she is blameless in every unpleasant aspect of her rise to power. If she had no other choice, then there's nothing special about her making the choice she did. Personally, I think it's somewhere in between. She was certainly no dishrag, but you're right that to an extent she was backed into a corner. But I do think I'm justified in saying that after a while she encouraged Henry, which means she takes some blame as well as some credit.
You're right that I may be going a bit too far with blaming Mary's acts as Bloody Mary on Anne, but I actually don't think it's that far-fetched. Psychologically, it makes a lot of sense. When you hate someone very much - and there's no doubt Mary loathed Anne Boleyn, possibly more than anyone else in the world - anything you associate with that person (such as the Protestant Reformation) you will hate as well. But I'm perfectly willing to concede I might be wrong about that. Still doesn't excuse Anne's treatment of Mary.
Yes, Anne gets credit for refusing to be a mistress. But even here, look what that cost so many people. She was right to refuse to be his mistress, but Plan B, as I've said, resulted in so many innocent people being hurt and killed that I almost (ALMOST! Not saying I DO) wish she'd been his mistress. You're right that she had no good options. She was, as I said, backed into a corner. But I don't think that changes the fact that the choices that she made are not ones which I would say should be repeated or emulated, and since that is what a role model is all about, I still stand by saying Anne Boleyn is not a role model.
You're absolutely right that she's been mistreated by history - until recently. Nowadays, she is more often glorified and cited as a role model and even a saint. Which I believe she was not, and I think even if you choose to disagree I think I do have some evidence on my side. I'm not saying she was bad or evil, as I patently think she was not. I just don't think she's a role model.

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Anarchyskat7 has stated things in a much more eloquent fashion than I could, so I will try not to repeat her words!

Not that Anne was necessarily immoral. It's just that if you look at her as a role model, it's hard to see the morality in her LIFE (not her herself, as it's possible she was a very moral person).



I’m not sure what you mean here – she was a moral person but lacked morality in her life? If by this you mean she was a complicated individual who was neither ‘good’ or ‘bad’, than I agree. She was human and the fact that she had shortcomings (and in my opinion not horrendous ones) are one of the things I like best about her.


I find Anne Boleyn to be the most interesting sixteenth-century figure. She was a diverse personality; she could be spiteful, temperamental; she spoke her mind even when it was not pragmatic to do so and appears to have fully believed in the legitimacy of union to Henry and was indifferent to those who did not recognise this. Yet she was extremely brave; when taking up a cause, stuck with it; often was more hardworking than her husband and had an impressive bout of confidence. In general she was a remarkable consort (it is noteworthy, for example, that during her queenship the King’s and Queen’s apartments were placed closer together and the consort was allowed better access to the monarch). Of course I can only speak about my own perception of Anne and why I like her. The historical figures that I am interested in and like do need to be perfect paragons of virtue. In fact I am often fascinated in those who were pretty much disliked by the majority of their contemporaries and/or by most historians! I like the fact that Anne Boleyn had many character flaws; I like the fact that she still evokes such debate today and historians continue to focus upon her Queenship and the details of her downfall. But overall I like her, regardless of her tantrums and her sharp tongue. I find it hard to completely assert that she is my role model; it is hard to fully affiliate one’s self with a person who faced such radically different circumstances. But would I wish for a bit of Anne’s confidence and determination? Oh, definitely!


You're right that I may be going a bit too far with blaming Mary's acts as Bloody Mary on Anne, but I actually don't think it's that far-fetched. Psychologically, it makes a lot of sense. When you hate someone very much - and there's no doubt Mary loathed Anne Boleyn, possibly more than anyone else in the world - anything you associate with that person (such as the Protestant Reformation) you will hate as well. But I'm perfectly willing to concede I might be wrong about that. Still doesn't excuse Anne's treatment of Mary.


I could ramble on about this issue all day, so I will try to keep it short . I’m extremely interested in the life and reign of Mary I and have observed that perceptions Mary can never been fully balanced, particularly in regards to her involvement in the renewal of the heresy laws during her reign. Mary’s dislike for Protestants was due to the offence made towards her faith; not because of Anne Boleyn. Obviously Mary was offended by those who had been involved in her father’s break from Rome and the dissolution of his marriage to her mother and had of course the whole thing never occurred she would not have persecuted as many individuals. But Mary’s main grievance was with those who denied the Catholic mass. She found this horrendous and completely intolerable. She was of course not alone on such a viewpoint; her father also persecuted individuals who rejected transubstantiation. But again, the mass was the crux of the matter. Alongside that were the obvious political grievances Mary had with Protestants -they were her natural opponents and like her fellow Tudor monarchs, she was capable of dealing with her political opponents in a decisive manner.

I am not denying that Mary could be capable of pettiness and having vengeful tendencies. Take for example the case of Thomas Cranmer, who had actually recanted his beliefs but was still killed. And according to the Venetian ambassador, Mary raised the subject of Anne Boleyn a few times just in order to insult her character. But in regards to Anne Boleyn, that was about it. Mary was far more concerned with Anne’s daughter and the reformists who were actually still present.

Mary was a complex figure – we can feel sympathy for her and at the same time feel exasperated over her actions (like Anne Boleyn!). I think historians need to work towards destroying the ‘Bloody Mary’ myth whilst simultaneously rejecting the extensive sympathetic revisionist approach (which admittedly is not going down well with the bulk of historians). But importantly I think it is fair to point out that Mary was a pretty smart individual who was deeply involved in the policies of her own reign, thus holds a lot of responsibility for what occurred. So she was behind the successes and the failures (and there were some successes!).





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Not that Anne was necessarily immoral. It's just that if you look at her as a role model, it's hard to see the morality in her LIFE (not her herself, as it's possible she was a very moral person)






I’m not sure what you mean here – she was a moral person but lacked morality in her life? If by this you mean she was a complicated individual who was neither ‘good’ or ‘bad’, than I agree. She was human and the fact that she had shortcomings (and in my opinion not horrendous ones) are one of the things I like best about her.


That is not what I was trying to say, although I agree with it.
What I was trying to say (I think I'm not explaining myself very well - sorry) is that although Anne herself has many things which she deserves to be admired for - which I wrote in my very first post - when you look at her life as an example of something we should be emulating, it's possible to absorb some very bad, unhealthy messages. There are some good messages, too, but the bad ones should not be ignored. I would not want to follow in Anne Boleyn's footsteps, and I don't think anyone should.

Anne lacked morality in her life? She refused to be a mistress, did not share his bed for around 6 years, how is it hard to see her as moral? She refused to be used and tossed aside, she wanted a marriage, legitimacy, vows and from a king, which was a very hard thing to pull off saying no to a man who is your king. That's not the action of someone immoral. She was also a student of the reformers, she was religious minded, she acted upon her conscious too.


You are correct, I said before that Anne gets credit for this. I said previously that I do not think she was a bad person. I just think if you look at her life as something to be imitated you could get some bad ideas about what a good life should be like.

Henry had to have his way, Henry was the driving force for all of this, Henry wanted a son, wanted a divorce, so if you want to say anyone was doing whatever they wanted without regard to how many died in the process then that would BE Henry, not Anne.

I absolutely agree. Henry VIII was more to blame than Anne. But Henry is far less idolized than Anne. I have never heard anyone cite Henry VIII as their role model, thankfully. (Although, Henry did have his redeeming qualities, too. If you ask me, history has been a bit hard on him as well. He wasn't ONLY a wife-killing psychopath.)

I don't get the idea of blaming her for these things, and saying she is not worthy to be looked up to, I think Henry's first 2 wives are his most interesting and praise worthy ones. Both women imo are to be looked at as examples of what to do. Anne's end cannot really be said to be her just deserts either, b/c had she born a son or two, she would have lived a long life with her head firmly upon her neck. Her only fault in the end was not giving him a male heir.


Now, HOLD ON JUST ONE MINUTE. I said IN MY VERY FIRST POST that I don't think Anne Boleyn deserved to die! I never said it was her "just deserts" or anything like it!! Just because I don't think she's a role model, it doesn't mean I think she deserved to die!
Also - and this is my fault - I didn't mean to say she is not worthy to be looked up to. She certainly had many admirable qualities. However, I think of a role model as being someone who is an example, all-around, of how you would want to live your life. I see many things in Anne Boleyn's life which are not how I would want to live my life, and not how I think other people should live theirs. That doesn't mean I think she isn't admirable in and of herself.

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What I was trying to say (I think I'm not explaining myself very well - sorry) is that although Anne herself has many things which she deserves to be admired for - which I wrote in my very first post - when you look at her life as an example of something we should be emulating, it's possible to absorb some very bad, unhealthy messages. There are some good messages, too, but the bad ones should not be ignored.


And I agree she was not a perfect human being (who is?). But then I don’t think role models, or figures who we are generally interested in and even like, need to be flawless individuals.

I would not want to follow in Anne Boleyn's footsteps, and I don't think anyone should.


But it is impossible to follow such an example –she was a figure who lived in times so alien to ours and whose actions were so extraordinary (along with the circumstances she met), that it is not a case of whether we can or should copy her or not. I admire her, but I am not exactly going to set out marrying a king! Rather she had admirable qualities and of course had shortcomings. I see nothing wrong though in appreciating aspects of her character and concluding that overall she was a remarkable woman.



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Precisely, she wasn't perfect and I don't expect role models to be perfect either. She was who she was, and that's enough for me.


Yep; I like such complexity!




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#1-Led a man away from a woman? Henry had MANY affairs way before Anne, he was not a loving and doting husband to Katherine.
#2-He forced himself upon her. She did not 'seduce' him. He noticed and became infatuated with her when she was already in love with someone else. She would not be used as a whore then thrown away, ruined. Henry would have never let her go. If you were in that situation, what would you have done?
#3-There is no evidence to show that it was Anne that ordered all those things (i.e. the Mary thing). In fact, Anne probably was upset by this, because she may have thought Mary would have hurt Elizabeth.(FYI Anne did try to reconcile with Mary). Why is it that Henry does all the bad is not blamed for any of it?
#4-How is it her fault if those people were killed for her? If some psycho path was obsessed with you, and killed someone for you, would you be responsible?
#5-Funny how you listed all these things, then forgot to add that Anne sacrificed her life for her child, and was extremely charitable.

If it was not Anne, it would have been someone else. Thank god it was Anne, because she had Elizabeth. I shudder to think where women's rights would be if it were not for Elizabeth.
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Tweedleexdee I second what you say, Anne is my favorite historical person and while she wasn't perfect (who is really) she does tend to get vilianised which I think is unfair.

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TO JANE SEYMOUR'S HOUSE! I HAVE SOME MAJOR SCORING TO DO!

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Interesting points about Anne's role in Henry's establishing himself as Head of the Church of England. Primarily because Henry continued his course of agrandizing his own personal power at the expense of the Church and its clergy AFTER Anne's death, I don't think it was all her doing. However; considering that the Church was the ONE obstacle that stood in the way of her desired marriage to Henry and the one thing that even Henry couldn't ignore, I believe Anne definitely supported Henry in his goals re the Church. As you point out, she was no dishrag. Morever, Jane Seymour (who, comparatively WAS a dishrag) was recorded as vainly pleading with her husband 'Henry! Spare the abbeys!'- in spite of knowing all too well what her husband was capable of doing to wives who had fallen out of favor! Considering that this seems to be the only known instance of Jane's objecting to Henry's actions(she certainly didn't urge him to spare Anne's head!), it seems virtually impossible that Anne would have raised no objections to Henry's dissolving the Church of Rome in England had she had any misgivings (and she DID let it be known when Henry wasn't doing what she wanted). Also, in spite of her having nothing to personally gain from it, Jane DID urge Henry to adopt a more humane approach to the 'Lady' AKA Princess Mary whereas Anne was needlessly mean to her and never seemed to have raised any objections to her being cruelly separated from her mother Catherine of Aragon! I never understood why Henry believed that separating mother and daughter would be of any positive benefit to him personally. It did nothing but fan sympathy towards Catherine by the populace and warp Mary's character. How Mary proved to be TUDOR by trying to avenge her mother's memory later on when Catherine herself admitted to never ceasing to desire Henry even on her own deathbed despite all the public and private humilations he'd done to her and their daughter! Yet, I admire that Catherine tenaciously refused to consider herself anything less than a Queen even long past it serving her any benefit to do so! Even factoring in her being Isabel's daughter, I wonder if Catherine would have kept up the fight had Mary also died in infancy? Ironically, though, Catherine definitely got to know Henry at his best!

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These posts have been very interesting and instructive. However, does anyone really consider Anne a role model? She is what she is--or rather, was. A flawed human being, as we all are. I know one thing--on Judgment Day, she will have a hell of a lot less to answer for than Henry.

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