bworm76 says > In The Bachelor and the Bobby Soxer, a judge actually ORDERS Cary Grant to date her sister, high school student Shirley Temple. (Others: Susan Slept Here, Daddy Long Legs, That Hagen Girl, the "Tammy" series, etc.)
Well, to be fair, it was a ruse to get her to STOP crushing on him. She was lovesick and they thought she'd soon lose interest. If they resisted, she'd only dig in her heels and never give him up. It was a bit of reverse psychology.
I think back then before women really entered the work force, it was considered ideal for a girl to get married ASAP. I imagine a mature man could marry her right out of school and train her to run his household the way he wanted it. Now it just has the "EWWW" factor.
That may have been true in prior decades but, based on what I've read, by the late sixties things had changed considerably. Even in this movie, she's supposed to be a very modern girl. Suddenly reverting to the 'old fashioned' values of her parents doesn't seem to fit the rest of the story. When she tells her mom that she too had married at about the same age and that she had everything, I cringed because it didn't sound like something the character would ever say.
Also, if marrying young was still the norm, her parents should have breathed a sigh of relief; first when they learned she was married and not just sleeping around and also when it turned out to be a mature guy with a steady job and bright future. That was not their reaction and not just because it turned out to be Merrick. They were talking about her going to college to learn, not to land a husband as was often the case in her parents' time.
These are just some of the reasons I didn't like the movie. It's disjointed and was only made to titillate audiences.
Woman, man! That's the way it should be Tarzan. [Tarzan and his mate]
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