You can kiss her even if you have before.
During weddings, does anyone really ever object (blasphemy!) to the joining together of the couple with the bride pregnant?
I have worked with genealogy for many years and in the 1800's it was not uncommon for a couple to tie the not shortly before childbirth. Surely this coould not have been a big shock. Thoughts?
The best revenge: Live well, enjoy life and be happy. Drives any haters crazy.