To cbgbrb: Be careful of thinking that films or TV from, say, the 1940s and 1950s, are realistic depictions of how most people lived. For example, rules forced movies and shows to pretend married couples always had separate beds when that was hardly the case. Folks have always had sex outside marriage, some happily, some with unfortunate results, but any depiction in Golden Era films of an independent woman had to have her suffer for her choices. Another example: In Abe Lincoln's day, it was quite normal for men in a boarding house to save money by sharing a bed, most likely for sleep only in most cases. But can you imagine such a scene in the great Henry Fonda depiction of young Abe Lincoln? Ha.
Also, not all kids got spanked or beaten for saucy language. My brothers and I would usually get just a vocal reminder if we were dumb enough to use "bad" words within hearing range. I did once get my mouth introduced to soap when I insisted on repeating such a word at dinner, but that backfired on Mom when I said it tasted good and everyone started laughing. She soon surrendered in that unwinnable war.
I have seen enough to know I have seen too much. -- ALOTO
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