Liggett's Wife


Can we say DOORMAT!! She was attractive and rich, yet she clung to a philandering abusive looser like Liggett! I guess it's true about love being blind! I wanted to shake her and say Wake up! He's no good for you!

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I was wondering the same thing...I'm watching it on TMC and her reaction to Gloria's death is almost as if it was a good friend or relative dying and not the "tramp" her husband was seeing

OT slightly the actress Dina Merrill is an actual heiress of the Post Cereal company...I saw her interviewed for AE bios on her mother Margeret Post and Barbara Hutton and never realized she was an actress

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To me this was such an unrealistic scenario. When Dina is watching Liggett and Gloria from the window making a scene with her coat center stage, her reaction when her husband came upstairs was almost like nothing big and marriage-wrecking just happened.

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True. The super rich, high-class society people are different from us regular folk. The don't like their business known and avoid scandal. Remember the scene with her mother when mother says "there's never been a divorce in the family...."? In this scene her mother was encouraging her daughter to leave Liggett. Good for her!

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I watched this movie again tonight and realized that, as angry as she was for being cheated on, when Mrs. Liggett saw how horribly her husband was treating Gloria, she almost pitied her. Note how after he storms off, the wife keeps watching and can see how distraught, humiliated and sad Gloria is. After all, they were both being misused by the man they loved. I think his wife was human enough to have some compassion.

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I was wondering the same thing...I'm watching it on TMC and her reaction to Gloria's death is almost as if it was a good friend or relative dying and not the "tramp" her husband was seeing


It was what Society People did to save face. Even within a family.



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The character of Liggett's wife clearly had care taking issues. The is evident in the fact that she knew her husband was a louse, but she's determined that she's going to perservere and find a way to make him appreciate having a rich wife that loves him! Is it healthy? No! But the reality of life is that there are people in the world like this woman who just can't accept that they've picked a looser.

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I guess that's why he was so attracted to Gloria; complete opposite of his Ice Queen wife. I'm not knocking her, though. I actually respect her for being able to handle herself that way, but as has been mentioned, she was bred that way, so it was second nature.

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the movie isn't required to show all women -- or men, for that matter -- making good choices

More to the point:

While it may have been starting to enter its death throws at that point, in 1960 the Production Code was still in place. Ending an American movie with a divorce wasn't allowed (because it was deemed immoral), and any mid-movie divorces (and generally any pre-movie divorces where both partners are present in the movie) should be reconciled by the end.

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The Code didn't forbid divorce. It was certainly heavily implied in The Best Years of Our Lives. Postwar divorces were as common as quickie wartime marriages. There's a difference between not allowing something and movie makers not wanting to risk an audience backlash over it.

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Sadly, this has nothing to do with the "era" as I see a LOT of women doing this today. It was more prevelant back then because the majority of females were raised to believe that their whole goal in life was to be a Wife and or Mother. When the possibility of that ending came to light, they couldn't handle the possible demise of what they believed to be their role in light. To make matters worse, I think they were often raised to feel that if they could keep a house clean, cook and bake well and raise a good family that you would be treated well by your husband. Instead I think that the dependance gave the men the upper hand and they soon figured out that they could do as they wished.

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The word is loser, not looser. The phrase is death throes, not death throws....you can look these things up.

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The character's name is "Emily." I was wondering why she put up with him when she was the one with all the money and power. Was it just fulfilling a societal role? Even her mom wanted her to divorce the creep.

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