The Meaning Of It All
This is a movie for those who want to ponder over the meanings and subtleties of any work of art.I think this movie actually deals with human memory -- how it affects and shapes one's life.Also it shows how history,memory and individual lives get entangled.The last sequence emphasizes this notion.Both the architect and the actress are cloistered within their personal(as well as two countries' historical) traumatic memories.These traumatic events are,in turn,set against their hometowns.That is why in the last sequence they assert that their hometowns are personified through themselves and that is where the difference lies.The contrast between the first and last sequence is evident.In the first sequence the man tells the girl to forget everything--not only her own memories but also the collective memories of all those who suffered in WW2.But in the last sequence it turns out to be impossible.
Also note that both the lovers of the girl belong to the axis powers in WW2.Isn't it significant?
All these are my personal opinions.I will be only too happy if anybody joins these discussion and clarifies my confusions.