Yes, not finding his own house and some of the other bits of absent-mindedness were more comic relief than credible parts of his character, and such things disappear soon enough, making them even less credible.
I've bought CDs with recordings of radio adaptations of some films, truncated versions of the original movies. The radio reenactment of NHITS was rewritten drastically and turned it almost into a comedy. It's much lighter than, and with little of the tension of, the movie. Stewart and Dietrich star in it, and Glynis Johns's character has been demoted in size. If I'd heard that before seeing the movie, I wouldn't have gone to see the movie.
But you were impressed by Honey's child-rearing theories? Really? Culled from a heartless textbook called "The Bringing Up of the Child" (though he did say he didn't find it "very satisfactory")? I value learning more than anything but one thing that's made clear in the movie (and book) is that Ellspeth is an unhappy child who has been turned into an awkward, isolated, socially shunned young girl because of Honey's obtuseness as a parent. You can't "schedule" a child's upbringing. To a point there is value and need in structure and discipline and a balanced upbringing, but while Honey's theory may have been fine his method of realizing it was pretty disastrous, cutting her off from all outside relationships. She also needed human contact, emotional involvement and to live as a child, not as the adult of the house -- which Ellspeth herself in effect confirms to Mr. Scott when she describes what her life is like. Both Marjorie and Monica see how badly Honey has fallen short as a father, which is a major reason why Marjorie knows she has to marry Honey -- that, and to set right his generally chaotic life.
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