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How do you live a care free lifestyle without becoming a hobo?


Do I Just not have the courage to take the risk and truly live like Alfred Jarry and the bohemians of the past? I drink all the time and don't make much money, but I hate my job and I just want to be happy and not care about anything besides being happy. I have been unhappy for a long time. I saw this play a few months ago, and I loved it.

"Pardon me madame, should an accident befall one of your children, we should be happy to help you produce others" -Alfred Jarry

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Well, for starters, it helps if you own your home free and clear (like Grandpa does) so that you don't have any mortgage / rent payments to make.

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Remember the point that Grandpa was trying to impress upon Mr. Kirby: there are always people to create inventions, fly airplanes, and "go down to Wall Street because they like it." He is not saying become a hobo and refuse to work. He is saying to find something that you like to do and pursue that career. You may not be rich, but at least you'll be happy. Alice seems to enjoy her job at Kirby and Company. Ed and Essie sell candy while Essie prepares to be a dancer -- which probably will never happen, Penny writes plays, Paul and Mr. DePinna make and sell fireworks. A plus for them is that Grandpa owns the house and receives a small income from some property he owns.

Will the family ever be rich? No! Will they be happy? Yes! Because they are doing things that they enjoy doing and that they find fulfillment in. Even Tony says that he will give up Wall Street and become a brick layer, because at least he'd be doing something that he wanted to do.

The moral of the story is not to become a hobo and do nothing. It is to take on a career that gives you happiness and satisfaction, not ulcers.

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If you seek lasting happiness on the outside (a more fulfilling job), you are trapped because it cannot give you that. No matter how hard the media tries to sell you this idea. The lack we feel is on the inside and it's the only place where true healing can happen. I recommend the book "The Power of Now" - it may change your life:
http://www.mindwell.be/ebooks/thepowerofnow.pdf

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A hobo's life isn't all that carefree; there's tooth rot, ticks, malnutrition, pneumonia, alcoholism, hobo fights, untreated infections, miscellaneous hygiene issues... a hobby would be better.

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