This recent article further reinforces what I said in the OP:
Demi Lovato Feels ‘Too Queer’ to Date a Cis Man
“When I started getting older, I started realizing how queer I really am.”
She said she’s doing some figuring out in terms of labels, but isn’t ready to be public about it yet.
“I know who I am and what I am, but I’m just waiting until a specific timeline to come out to the world as what I am,” Lovato said in the interview. “I’m following my healers’ timeline, and I’m using this time to really study and educate myself on my journey and what I’m preparing to do.”
Wherever she ends up, Lovato said “she feels ‘too queer’ to be with a cis man,” and she’s finally embracing that. Cutting her hair was a part of that acceptance, and she wants to eventually shave her head.
“When I started getting older, I started realizing how queer I really am,” Lovato added. “This past year I was engaged to a man, and when it didn’t work, I was like, This is a huge sign. I thought I was going to spend my life with someone. Now that I wasn’t going to, I felt this sense of relief that I could live my truth.”
As she’s grown, she’s more able to tell what she likes and doesn’t like. And she’s listening to herself. “I hooked up with a girl and was like, ‘I like this a lot more.’ It felt better. It felt right,” she said.
“Some of the guys I was hanging out with—when it would come time to be sexual or intimate, I would have this kind of visceral reaction," she continued. "Like, ‘I just don’t want to put my mouth there.’ It wasn’t even based on the person it was with. I just found myself really appreciating the friendships of those people more than the romance, and I didn’t want the romance from anybody of the opposite sex.”
https://www.out.com/celebs/2021/3/11/demi-lovato-feels-too-queer-date-cis-man
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Only a matter of time before she fully comes out as genderqueer.
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