Do you know what he actually said to that 19 y/o hotel worker?
This is not even in dispute, Kobe never denied saying this. He didn't even deny his actions. He just said she interpreted his actions one way (it being non-consentual), and he interpreted another (she was up for it). One thing that is undeniable is he did ask her, "Can I c*m on your face?" -- now that is simply disgusting.
All of you White liberal women out there, ask yourself this, do you find this to be romantic?