Rya Kihlstedt: Rya Kihlstedt. Actress: Home Alone 3. Rya Kihlstedt was born on 5 August 1969 in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, USA. She is an actress and director, known for Home Alone 3 (1997), Deep Impact (1998) and Dexter (2006). She has been married to Gil Bellows since 3 October 1994. They have two children.