I met her today!
She was with her son in Santa Monica at a comic book store! As she was on her way out I went up to her and asked if she was in Hitch just to make sure it was her and she said "Yes" then i asked for a picture and we posed together. She was very sweet. I almost didn't want to bother her because she was in mommy mode, but I figured when was i gonna get another chance to get a picture with someone from my favorite movie?!
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