I don't get it with her - more for all you guys, though
To me, she just plain isn't attractive. She looks washed out, tired, drawn, worn out. The attractive features are there individually, but put together, they don't succeed in being attractive.
She's 54 now, and she looks like she's been 54 for the past 20 years. Not in terms of lines, wrinkles, or anything like that. But in her face. She looks like she hasn't slept in a week after getting out of a month at a battered woman's shelter, and before that, she had a year-long stint at rehab, prior to which she had been using meth daily for 8 years.
Why do you find her attractive? Me, I don't see it.
I want the doctor to take your picture so I can look at you from inside as well.