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Question for gay people here: James Bond


curious for answers from the gay community...

when movies shoe horn in very brief, and I mean VERY brief mentions of a gay character, that is just an aside, doesn't affect the plot at all, and feels like an after though, only mentioned in passing for maybe 6 seconds total, does that connect you more with the movie, and are you proud your sexual choice got this mere mention? Or is it kind of offensive that the character is largely ignored?

Serious question. I've noticed the gay character shoe horned in more and more, BRIEFLY, affecting nothing, and always wondered what the gay viewers think about that?
Is it fantastic? Or reductive placating to you? Maybe even more like a slap in the face?

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Ok a few thoughts

1. This feels like a trap. Given the rampant homophobic sentiments spewed on this forum on a daily basis, one might question why you think gay forum members would be likely to open themselves up for abuse.

2. Tying into the above point, I’ve been here a while and I haven’t seen a single person other than myself who has been open about their sexuality so it feels like you might be looking for answers in the wrong place.

3. I can’t think of one gay reference in Bond other than the implied flirtation between Bardem and Craig in Skyfall. To me it wasn’t a big deal, I chuckled at it and didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about it after that. I’m no huge Bond fan though so maybe I’m missing other gay references.

4. Generally gay representation in film is good to see when it’s organic and natural but nothing I pine for in every movie I see.

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I have not seen the newest Bond, but heard they mentioned Q being gay or something.
just watched a star trek where sulu runs over and cuddles his boyfirend... and that is it. they seem like pointless, limited references to try to be "inclusive" or whatever, but the characters don't really DO anything.

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Would you really prefer every gay character to be included with a storyline that emphasises their sexuality and makes a huge deal about it? Maybe the references you speak of are showing gay people as they are, just regular people whose sexual preference is not the defining factor of their personality. I wouldn’t expect a straight person to analyse every movement of a straight character or to have every straight character accompanied by an explicit study of their sexuality, so I don’t know why straight people would expect gay viewers to do the same for gay characters.

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im straight and dont understand being gay (nor do I care at all) and just asking a question as to how they see it

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The only thing you need to “understand” about being gay is that it means you’re attracted to someone of your own sex. There’s no gay hive mind or a single way in which all gay people think, the gay community is made up of individuals with their own individual opinions like every other community. There can’t be a single answer that will satisfy you because no two gay people are going to see the issue the same way.

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Psst.. he didn't seek answers.

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So Sulu can't cuddle with his boyfriend but Sulu cuddling with his girlfriend is okay?

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it just seemed like they check marked a box to make someone happy thats all

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Still, thousands of heterosexual scenes happen all the time, but those don't seem like they check marked a box do they?

You have to see that your entire approach is hypocritical. The only reason you notice the scene is because it's an LGBT scene.

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OR.... OR.... or you could realize that 96% of the population is kind of a majority, so that's what will be in movies the most, and expected.

This is life, on Earth, how it goes, deal with it.

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So 1 single gay character in the entire Star Trek film series is disproportionately representing how many gays exist?

How many gay characters have we had in Daniel Craig's 6 Bond movies? Raoul Silva and maybe now Q (haven't seen it either). 2 characters out of I dunno how many hundreds of characters exist in that continuity

Stupid points

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huh.

Guess we should enforce real world ratios of hertos into all gay movies too. seems to me, people should just make movies for the groups they want to, and not try to please all of everyone all the time.

if gays want to make movies with 100% all gay cast, for gay audiences, I say more power to them. If straights want to make 100% all strait movies (96% ), I say more power to them. No need for there to be some "inclusive" character stuck in to an all strait movie.

"Waaaa! Waaaa! You're new movie did not include X! WAAAAA!"
"Gee... I did not make this movie for X to be the audience. I can't make a movie for absolutely everyone. That would be insane."

STAR TREK 14: "Captain Chekov is into scat jobs...." great. is this plot related? Who gives a shit? (Pun very intended) This detail is unimportant story wise. As is someone's sexual preference - unless it affects the direction of the story. So is straight people's sexual preference. BUT, it will show up more, since that is 96% of the audience. 96%!! Not 4%, not 12%, not 50%, but 96%. Because size IS important.

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You're operating under the assumption that all straight people are like you and only want to have 100% straight casts in their movies because they have some ideological problem with homosexuality. In reality most people don't give a shit if there are gay characters in movies

I doubt that JJ Abrams or Justin Lin have a strong desire, like you, to have 100% straight casts. Again, even if the percentage of the population that is LGBT is only 4%, that's greater than zero. Having 1 or 2 gay characters in a whole movie trilogy seems to match up with that proportion, so I'm not sure what your argument here is

It's not like Fundamentalist Christians are running Hollywood lol, and that's one of the only major demographics in the country that is strongly anti LGBTQ like you. If they aren't the ones making movies then why would you expect the movies being produced to reflect their beliefs?

You seem to think that most directors/producers would WANT 100% straight characters, but feel compelled to add LGBTQ characters to be inclusive. Maybe they WANT to be inclusive? Maybe they want to add a gay character because they're from a very liberal state and it's more realistic from their POV to not have 100% straight characters? And again, it's not like half of the characters are LGBTQ. Most major franchises still only have very few. Nothing particularly unrealistic about it

If it upsets you because you don't like gay people for whatever reason then just say that. Just say that it's what you personally desire. Because your points don't make much sense

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no, I'm simply "generalizing" as one should do when trying to talk with a billion people online.
mine were examples, not concrete, must be situations.

I'm STILL not upset. wtf is wrong with people?? just answer the question and stop worrying about MY feelings :D

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me: ask question
internet: he brings up something controversial, THEREFORE it upsets him!
internet: let's all jump on THAT diversion instead of the original question!
more internet: Yes! LET'S THAT! RAHHH!! CHARGE!!!!!

Me: [shaking my head]

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I'm trying to answer your original question. I'm not gay so I can't speak for them if they find it insulting, but I do know that the term "queerbaiting" exists, so yeah it's a thing that has been talked about before. I don't know why they made Sulu gay, but if I had to guess I'd say they did it as a tribute to George Takei

When artists retroactively state that characters are gay I do find that offensive. Like JK Rowling with Dumbledore or whoever write the Han Solo movie saying Lando was written as pansexual in an interview even though the movie included no mention of his sexuality. Even as a straight person I can see how disingenuous that is. It's a clear attempt to get free "inclusivity points" from the media

But seeing background or tertiary characters shown as gay, even if it's irrelevant to the plot, doesn't bother me. If a character in a movie says "I hate my wife's cooking", nobody would think anything of it. But if a male character were to mention an unseen husband then it would be called "forced diversity". Sure, it's relatively new to see gay characters populating more and more movie roles so to some people it may be jarring, but I know plenty of gay people in real life. Seeing them occupy more roles in movies just seems to be reflecting the reality that I know more approximately

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The problem is that most of these minorities have never been represented. So now we're trying to make up for that, not a bad Idea. For the last 50 years we've only seen pretty blond girls, and old white guys. So now even if the statistics don't match up, its time to pay the piper.

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George Takei was actually mad that they made the current Sulu gay. Said it goes against Roddenberry’s image.

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"This feels like a trap."

ya think?

"are you proud your sexual choice got this mere mention?"

I bet you're gorgeous.

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I don't believe there are any gay people here. This was brought up before a while ago.

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ok, it is not a trap, i was really curious if they felt uplifted or insulted by measely 6 seconds of screen mention time.
I think it would be stupid and insulting myself. just wondered if they thought it was progress in some way.

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Exactly what a trap setter would say.

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They always say it’s not a trap. I’ve heard it 100 times!

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https://youtu.be/4F4qzPbcFiA

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When he says it, you know its true!!!

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I've spoken to many LGBT people, the general feeling is they don't give a damn about being briefly mentioned (sure, they're glad Hollywood is finally changing), but they are very upset that homophobes make a huge deal over it.

I mean, the random guy who kisses a woman in a movie, does that upset you nearly as much as the random guy kissing another guy? No one is denying that Hollywood makes some seriously cringe worthy dialogue and scenes... but the fact of the matter is that the only reason you're upset about the scenes is because they involve LGBT characters... you wouldn't be upset if the same exact scene happened with normal characters.

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Thank you, that pretty much nails it.

It seems funny to me that some people expect all gay people to be rampant, hysterical militants who do nothing but rage over issues like representation in movies, rather than assuming they are mostly just regular movie lovers who are more concerned about a good story than political discussions about diversity and inclusion. I do think you’re on to something by suggesting that it’s often the prejudiced people who are vocal with that assumption, it serves their agenda to make out all gays are unreasonable nut jobs and part of a wider LGBT “movement” who are out to ruin movies for everyone. Like we are that organised 😂

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OH MY GOD. Why do people immediately jump to "im upset" about this when all im doing is asking a question to get feedback? What is up with that?

TO CLARIFY, I am not UPSET about anything, just asking if gay people like the tiny crumbs the are offered or if it's offensive.

Everything needs a fuckjng disclaimer now??? Lighten up, Francis

I know it is shocking but some people are capable of discussing awkward topics online with out being upset about them. Weird, but true

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No, they’re not. You are case in point.

The internet: no mature adults allowed. Drama queens welcome.

Sheesh!

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yeah.. yeah.. I know, what was I expecting ?

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maybe you're not upset , but your OP shows a complete incomprehension about why gays are now being "shoehorned" in .

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and that wasnt even the topic, so who cares?

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Because you are very clearly upset, no matter how much you deny it.

My point is simple, the same scene you're complaining about would never have gone on this board as "when movies shoe horn in very brief, and I mean VERY brief mentions of a heterosexual character..."

You were upset about something and thus commented on it... why is this such a big problem to admit?

Right now you're clearly very upset about having a civilized discussion about an awkward topic, similar to the thread where the guy asked whether taking the handicap space when you're not handicapped was bad, then clearly got upset that people answered that it was bad.

After all, I gave you the answer and I further explained why there is a large push against your view. Do I need to put a disclaimer on my messages that they can trigger you?

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you read it wrong, dude. or girl, or person, whatever.

I am not upset about the topic I posted at all.

I AM upset about people assuming someone is upset over a question. that's fucking ridiculous... yet, par for the internet sadly

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You are upset about the topic you posted, you're upset about admitting this as well.

As I've pushed over and over again, you would never have posted this about a random heterosexual scene... it was the random homosexual scene that upset you enough to post this.

Prove me wrong, go ask "Heterosexuals, does it bother you when very brief scenes of kissing, cuddling, or out right heterosexual sex happen in a movie"

You can complain about the cringe worthy dialogue, which I agree make those scenes particularly bad. But pretending that you aren't upset while being completely hypocritical is absurd.

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96% of us dont care. I wasn't asking the 96% and you are still wrong, I was never "upset" about the situation.
but you are welcome to make up whatever you like inside your head. it doesn't change the truth of my position of not being upset. :)

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LMAO...YOU AREN'T LEADING THE 96% IN THOUGHT AND THEORY...YOU WOULD BE LUCKY TO FIND 2% TO AGREE TO BE GROUPED WITH YOU.

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I don't often read this mindless stuff, but its super fun to read when you're working your way through a bottle of wine:)

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If 96% of people don't care, that makes you part of the 4% that does. LGBT doesn't give a crap and never has.

Why is pointing out your hypocrisy upsetting you so much? What about all that random romancing in Wonder Woman? Where is your thread about that?

If we can finally admit that the only reason you made this post was because the scene involved people of a certain sexuality then you can start progressing to the 96% of people who don't give a crap about these scenes in movies.

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If 96% of people don't care, that makes you part of the 4% that does.

BOOM! That cracked me up, lol.
LGBT doesn't give a crap and never has.

Well that is clearly untrue. Aside from that I am with you on your assessment of the OP.

Carry on.

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You’ve now learned why there is near zero participation in “courageous conversations” programs in the workplace.

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yeah.... hahahahaha....

Live talks at a coffee shop go so much more humane than stupid internet

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The irony is you were asking a question to understand the thinking of people in a different demographic and the response was hypercriticism that you fail to understand people in a different demographic.

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right. thus why I was asking, to understand. I think I heard some really good answers to my query, and everyone could respond different to the it. all good. no reason to keep growing this dissucssion further.

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Considering your posting history, as well as the interactions that I have had with you on Dave Chapelle's page in regards to transgender issues, I think that you aren't upset, and I'm not going to call you a troll, but like Thetasigma said, it's a trap. You are posting inflammatory topics to arise heated discussions.

You may or may not actually have an issue with the LGBTQ+ community, but you sure do like to talk about them.

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I don't have any issues with them, and you'll notice I'm asking these questions here about the movie industry's directions, and opinions about it.
The internet should be the perfect place to hear all sorts of wide and varied perspectives we can all learn from, instead of the waste dump it is, of false accusations, and pointless self agendas. What's the point of talking here if we can't communicate on a real level?

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I guess my previous encounter with you makes me completely doubt any sincerity in that statement.

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welcome to the internet. :)

I guess you followed me here to NOT answer the question also

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" I've noticed the gay character shoe horned in more and more, BRIEFLY, affecting nothing"
That right there is the problem. People seeing it like that. It shouldnt have to *affect* the plot

All the bigots be like "PC AGENDA! box ticking! . There was no reason that character had to be black / gay"

Which is fucking retarded because what that adds up to is:
"Black people should never be allowed on the screen unless its another slave documentary"
"Gay people cant be onscreen unless the plot requires them to be gay"

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wait... isnt using the term retarded a hate crime now? you are now CANCELLED, chum!

if you are gay, I will listen to you. if not, the question is not for you so shut the fuck up

FIRST LINE:
"curious for answers from the gay community..."
is everyone retarded now? (I dont care about being cancelled)

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Well I’m gay and you’ve dismissed pretty much every response I’ve made here, so….

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Gee you could have lead with "I'm gay". Seems like most replies are not gay. How would I have known. This puts your replies better on point!

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Well I thought my first response to this post where I said “ I’ve been here a while and I haven’t seen a single person other than myself who has been open about their sexuality” might have given you a clue. But I never lead with “I’m gay” because, as I’ve been trying to point out, it’s not the defining characteristic of my personality.

Seeing a gay person in a film might be to me like you seeing a character who is from the same town or state as yourself. There’s a recognition of it but no personal need for it to be made into a defining part of the story.

One thing I am glad about is that you now see gay characters who are not necessarily victims or vapid stereotypes like in the old days of film. It’s nice to see gay people portrayed as everyday folk, like they most certainly are.

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I think you should preface all your threads from now on with ‘I’m gay’ and whilst we’re at it, maybe wear a t-shirt with ‘I’m gay’ on it too (a matching baseball cap would be handy also).

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What, and replace my “I’m not gay but the guy I blow is” T-shirt? Never!!

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I WANT THAT SHIRT TOO.

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Seeing a gay person in a film might be to me like you seeing a character who is from the same town or state as yourself. There’s a recognition of it but no personal need for it to be made into a defining part of the story.

Interesting. That's a new way to think about it, for me.

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It's different when they use the terms. They will call you a faggot or similar pretty soon in the effort to shame you and that will be perfectly ok by their way of thinking.

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I think the real issue is inserted identity politics . No-one can just me a person anymore but must be identified solely by one particular characteristic which is highlighted as if that's all they really are.
It doesn't matter what group you are assigned. ...whether its gender or race or sexual preference.. It takes away the nuance of an individual and sucks them up into a collective. ...And it's divisive.
And the media bears down on it in a way that is anything but organic. Sexual preference or race may be irrelevant to the story but somehow must be pointed out. And sometimes that doesn't feel natural and can take you out of the story.

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yeah the imbalance is real. 96% dont really care what the 4% do, but I guess they get their 4% screen time, thanks to the bean counter$.

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What I'm curious about is how putting a gay couple in Halloween Kills is done for the sake of inclusion then a bunch of losers on Twitter whine about homophobia because they get killed liked everyone else does in a slasher movie.

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Yep. Because you will never make everyone happy. Why cancel will eliminate everything eventually. Gonna be a dull future thanks to people "fixing it"

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You have a very negative, unrealistic and defeatist mindset. Why concern yourself with making everyone else happy? That's absurd and the 'cancel culture' movement will always encounter resistance. Life has a way of consistently creating balance, although it's not always immediately apparent.

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that was for the cancellers reading.

honestly, i know CC will fade and die like all other pointless "protests" or whatever its classified as.

I'm on "TEAM REALITY" :)

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oops jeeez! Now, I'M off topic! Stupid internet hahahahahaha

ALL POST COMMENTING SHOULD STOP AFTER TWO DAYS

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i think 95% of the whiners on twitter are just attention seekers who arnt really offended
trolls basicly

The other 5% are journalists forthe Daily Mail tring to create "outrage" they can write a headline about.
professional trolls

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"sexual choice"


YOU'RE AN IDIOT.

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KOWASAKI IS BACK!

Tell me, non-idiot sir, are you physically able to DECIDE to not stick your dick into another man? Are you ABLE to make that >>CHOICE<< ?

[bowing, accepting the roses being thrown from the audience...] Thank you, thank you, yes, I know I am... thank you

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I CAN ALSO CHOOSE TO STICK MY DICK INTO A PAPER SHREDDER...SO MANY CHOICES.


WHAT I CANNOT CHOOSE HOWEVER...IS WHO OR WHAT I AM ATTRACTED TO OR LIKE OR DISLIKE OR LOVE OR HATE.


THE SOONER YOU REALIZE HUMAN RELATIONS AND STICKING YOUR DICK IN THINGS ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE...THE BETTER IT WILL BE FOR EVERYONE.

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why does my realizing anything affect YOUR world or anyone's? hahahaha that's weak, sad, and also not my problem at all.

you can CHOOSE to ignore my lack of realizations.
people can also CHOOSE to not be triggered. I've done that every day of my whole life. its called being sane and responsible for one's self.

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DUDE...YOU DON'T MATTER TO ME ANY MORE THAN A RANDOM SEAGULL WITH ERECTILE DYSFUNTION...THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND THE SAD BONER FREE BIRD?...YOU FIGURED OUT HOW TO WORK THE INTERNET AND POST YOUR BIRD BRAIN BULLSHIT.

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You are totally the most male genitalia focused poster I've ever encountered who doesn't openly identify as gay. This explains your dysfunctional marriage and blaming everything on the Missus.

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I'M FINE WITH DICKS AND DICK LOVERS...BUT I LOVE WOMEN AND AM MESMERIZED BY NAKED WOMEN.


ONE DAY YOU WILL REALIZE(OR NOT) THAT MY POSTS ARE AN HONEST REPRESENTATION OF MYSELF.😘

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