fuck marriage and children
pointless bs imo
shareIt's a matter of opinion like any other big decision in life halo
Personally, my wife got me out of the pubs and dopey behavior like fighting and gambling...I was on a bit of a mad tear 17 years ago when I met her and she laid down the law...
Having kids forced me to be better at my work to keep a roof over everyone's head and a full pantry
I'd probably be living in a van down by the river if I didn't make this family...but again, it's all a matter of personal choices
it's not pointless to the people who want those things, & who have them & are happy to do so.
i think having children & being part of a couple is something deeply ingrained into the human condition, an elemental part of our evolutionary heritage if you like.
certainly there's a wide range of human behavior, & such things are not for everyone. it's definitely not for me.
but i think it's safe to say that for many people, they'd feel like their lives would be much less rich & would be quite empty without children, certainly.
& i don't think that ought to be dismissed with cynicism.
Nice answer
shareSingle and loving it (was married). Glad I have kids, though.
shareWhat if your parents had that attitude?
shareI don't disagree with you, but are you being coerced?
shareyeah
shareSorry to hear.
shareIs it arranged?
From "The Big Bang Theory":
Amy: You're really letting your father pick out a wife?
Raj: Why not?
Arranged marriages have been working for thousands of years.
Anu(?) and I come from similar backgrounds and our families get along and we each fill out questionnaires so we know we're not wasting our time with someone who is not compatible.
Penny: Wow, that sounds so dry and clinical...
Sheldon: [Looking at Raj] You lucky duck!
Leonard: I just don't think you can truly know someone until you spend a lot of time with them.
Raj: Really?
What's Penny's dream vacation?
Leonard: Uh... A Malibu beach house.
Penny: That's Barbie's dream vacation...
[Looking at Raj] Maybe you should send us that questionnaire.
[laugh track]
Taken from:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QirSIekBAyY
~~/o/
no,but my family wont shut up about it
shareMarriage is great when it works. Kids are a blessing.
shareWhy are you so angry halomaniac88? Did someone turn you down????
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