Me neither. My understanding is that he would ask these woman if they'd mind if he masterbated in their presence. If they said no, he wouldn't do it. Now the behavior seems abnormal but if it was just one guy asking his female friend to do this, and accepting rejection, there should really be no issue. I believe the problem is he ultimately did this to women who may have been working on projects where he was a producer or in some other position of power. I can see why women find this behavior disgusting (because it is).
But I also feel bad for C.K. because A) I can see how he may have just lost track of how this behavior had gotten out of control and may have not realized how wrong he was. And B) unlike the vast majority of those accused of various degrees of sexual misconduct, C.K. admitted his behavior and (imo opinion) sincerely apologized for it. He didn't call anyone a liar or try to BS his way out of it. Say what you will about what he did but to me it says a lot about him that he was willing to own up.
The public shame as well as loss of numerous projects he had been working on seems to be a punishment he accepted. But at what point does society decide he's served his penance? Is what he did worth lifelong exile? As a fan of him as a truly gifted comedian, I personally hope not.
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