At what age did you lose your virginity?
Or for Croft...what age do you suppose you will lose it๐
shareHaven't lost it yet.
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I didn't lose my virginity, I gave it away.
shareAnd at what age were so charitable?๐
shareRelatively older, and I'll get to that.
I've always been somewhat shy when it comes to physical intimacy, not sure why. I think Mom was very proper and drilled into me to be respectful, and I grew up believing in Romance more than Sex.
Funny thing is, I had a GF when I was about 5 years old. We'd walk around the neighborhood holding hands and smooching. I remember an older kid telling us to kiss in front of her, and of course we did. But a year or so later when she, I and my neighbor (a boy) were in the basement, someone suggested we show each other our junk. I couldn't do it.
It just felt embarrassing. I have a vague recollection of trying to feel her while we were laying on a hammock, but all I can recall is not knowing what it all means. I'm not sure what grade we were in, but it was no more than the Third.
By the 7th grade I had a real girlfriend. Our relationship was chaste, but we would make out passionately, and I'm pretty sure she was pretty aroused. I think quietly she got a lot of gratification out of my blue-jeaned thigh on her clothed groin than I realized at the time. Once she allowed me to touch her breast, and I clumsily pulled half of her bra away from it's holding place. I put my hand over her boob. Well, gently putting one's hand over a women's boob isn't exactly mind-blowing, but it was interesting, and I suppose represented a milestone. I asked if she wanted to check me out, but she declined. For the most part, we were pretty good kids. We went to a Lutheran school, not crazy strict but we were expected to be smart and responsible.
But I didn't date in high school. The really pretty, partying chicks didn't seem interested in me - skinny, acne - and I didn't seem to fit in with the straight crowd. In retrospect, there were a lot of pretty girls I might have tried to get to know, but none of them seemed to flirt with me, so I didn't know what to think.
So it wasn't until college when things started to take off. Not that suddenly I
was some sexual dynamo, far from it. I was still nervous about getting physical with women. But I lived in a co-ed dorm, and everyone was very friendly and happy to be there. Pretty, smiling women everywhere ! I tried to present myself as a charming fellow with a sly sense of humor. Finally some horny chick maneuvered me into a position where the Deed had to be Done. I didn't realize she was using birth control, so I tried not to ejaculate inside her. I think she was way more experienced than I, and thought I was the kind of guy that would easily have sex and not get too emotional about it. Since we never really bonded in any meaningful way, when she cast me aside it was a little perplexing but nothing to be too broke up over. Heck, I had platonic female friends I was a lot more fond of than her.
But I remember thanking God I hadn't turned 20 before my first real sexual encounter.
But masturbation? That's a whole separate topic !
That was a lot of honesty๐ how old are you now? Happily married? Cooze hound trying to make up for lost time?
share7, technically. No joke.
shareI figured if there was anyone that would beat me...it would be you...you lil Cooze hound๐
shareThe girl was 12. Summertime, no school, parents were at work... all that stuff.
shareSo you were sexually abused.
shareI'd honestly advice you to leave it there Df.
It's not an amusing story if it's the one I'm thinking of.
Not sure what story you have in mind, but this one was a pivotal and positive time of my life. It's also my most vivid childhood memory because of how fun, interesting and memorable it all was.
shareI was thinking the sister thing.
shareOh, she was involved in these events as well, to varying degrees. The girl I mentioned above was my sisters friend, schoolmate, and our neighbor. They were both 12.
shareI stand by my original advice to Df.
Nothing against your experience mind.
Just that what some people think is cool isn't necessarily what others think is.
Nope, I participated not only voluntarily, but a lot of it was also my idea.
I was a precocious kid.
19
shareUmkay๐๐
shareI just realized..messing with me makes you feel better doesn't it?
You discovered a new cure for "i'm bored"virus