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What can I do to apologize to this girl on Facebook?

posted 7 years ago by csweetleaf2 (3734)
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Last week I've wrote one of my old school friends a personal message on Facebook and this was the message I've written to her.

"It's been awhile since I've heard from you, how you been doing these days? I'm doing good, do you remember me telling you about the times I've gotten shunned & rejected by a bunch of people who I've liked and wanted to be friends with? Looking back I've realized if I've had gotten to become good friends with these types of people I don't think I would be half as nice, friendly & compassionate of a person as I became today and I don't think I would care so much for the elderly and the disabled as I do now.

At my new job I've been getting a lot of appreciation from my co-workers, customers and some of the managers and I feel like I'm doing something right if I've made a positive impact in their lives being who I am, when I was younger I've had an image on who I wanted to be and it wasn't the person who God wanted me to be"

What would be the kindest way to apologize to this girl for writing her this message since she never responded back to this message, I really don't want to act like a jerk towards her because I've had lashed out my anger towards her before for not responding back to my messages when I've wanted to hear back from her.

[–] [deleted] 7 years ago

Just put her on block as i doubt you'll hear back from her at all.

[–] mike (327) 7 years ago

First of all, congratulations on your success at work. The feedback you’re getting definitely means that you are on the right track.

Second, my advice is - do not apologize. Nothing about your message to her calls for an apology. If she wants to write back, she will. If not, let it go and move on.

[–] twinA (4921) 7 years ago

She's moved on. Time for you to do the same. You've done what you could. It's up to her now. There's no time to waste on someone who doesn't share the same feelings for you as you do for them. Sounds like you've already made some necessary changes to improve your lot and happiness. Focus on yourself or someone else so negativity will not resonate and disrupt your life.

[–] [deleted] 7 years ago

Send her a dick pic.

[–] actionkamen (23176) 7 years ago

Best advice.

[–] croft_alice (12180) 7 years ago

Sounds familiar,aren't you that guy who pretends he knows only Arabic!?! Gotcha,you SOB!!

[–] csweetleaf2 (3734) 7 years ago

I've decided that I don't owe her anything and I'm gonna focus more on those who do appreciate and care for me.

[–] DoctorFever (485) 7 years ago

I dont know. I think you still owe her the Dick pic Jimmy mentioned👍

[–] MIchiganJFrogg (-35) 7 years ago

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[–] croft_alice (12180) 7 years ago

Just move on,really

[–] Skullomania (483) 7 years ago

The amount of garbage on Facebook and you really think you need to apologise for this?

[–] captkirk42 (51) 7 years ago

Apologize? For what? She probably read it and moved on. Old school friends tend to be just that old school friends. If she is still on your list of friends don't worry about it. When Facebook tells you it's her birthday send a Happy Birthday post.

[–] csweetleaf2 (3734) 7 years ago

To admit it I only want to apologize to her so I can get her to respond back to my previous messages that I've sent her, she's the reason why I've wanted to stay in school and graduate no matter how much I've hated school and being put in special education, despite me being in a rough environment in school she inspired me to stay strong and be happy and I credit her for not being similar to most of my classmates in special education (most of my classmates were either mean, angry, mentally unstable and difficult to get along with), I wanted everyone to be a lot like this girl who I'm having issues with on Facebook.